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#199293 - 01/13/08 11:58 AM I Am A Good Person, because
KENKEN Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 09/25/07
Posts: 762
Loc: NOTHERN COLORADO
I have admitted I was a victim of CSA

I am getting professional help

I am now living for the future

I was not to blame for what happened

Despite what happened to me, I will be stronger, my life is NOW in my hands and not in the hands of my perp'

I will survive

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I AM A GOOD PERSON, I AM A GOOD MAN

From the Movie: Antwone Fisher

***WOR ALUMNI SEQUOIA MARCH 2008***

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#199298 - 01/13/08 12:53 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: KENKEN]
Scoutvictim Offline
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Registered: 06/04/07
Posts: 434
Loc: St. Louis, Missouri
because...

I am a good businessman

I am a good friend to others

I am now involved in helping other children to be safe

Carl

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Shawn and Ben will always be in my heart....

Happiness is like peeing your pants; Everyone can see it, but only YOU feel the warmth.

Peebles, Ohio WOR alumni, Oct. 2007

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#199354 - 01/13/08 10:39 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: Scoutvictim]
weapher Offline
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Registered: 12/10/07
Posts: 60
Loc: Oregon
Yep!

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Facing the struggle makes you strong.

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#199386 - 01/14/08 03:37 AM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: weapher]
Scoutvictim Offline
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Registered: 06/04/07
Posts: 434
Loc: St. Louis, Missouri
Come on people....

Join this thread...

I AM A GOOD PERSON BECAUSE...

you fill in the blanks.

I'll be watching.

Carl

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Shawn and Ben will always be in my heart....

Happiness is like peeing your pants; Everyone can see it, but only YOU feel the warmth.

Peebles, Ohio WOR alumni, Oct. 2007

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#199399 - 01/14/08 08:41 AM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: Scoutvictim]
DanM Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 11/09/07
Posts: 540
Loc: So. California
I am a good person because....I am kind, caring and considerate
I love my wife and kids
I am trying to live a better life


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#199500 - 01/14/08 09:48 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because *DELETED* [Re: DanM]
Freedom49 Offline
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Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 2723
Loc: Washington State
Post deleted by Freedom49



Edited by Freedom49 (01/14/08 09:49 PM)

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#199563 - 01/15/08 12:57 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: Freedom49]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1674
Loc: Moscow, Russia
I can overcome being sorry for my mistakes and setbacks.

Thanks for this thread.

Alexey

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When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!

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#201034 - 01/24/08 01:00 AM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: alexey]
NoOneImportant Offline
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Registered: 01/11/08
Posts: 36
I was bound and determined to post in this thread when I finally found something:

I'm already a better father than my father or grandfather were.


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#201038 - 01/24/08 03:41 AM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: NoOneImportant]
Eric5 Offline
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Registered: 12/31/07
Posts: 27
Loc: Pennsylvania, USA
just a good person. no reason needed. right?


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#201058 - 01/24/08 05:50 AM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: Eric5]
roadrunner Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
I am a good person because all the bad feelings I had (and may still have) about myself come from abuse and the abuser's lies.

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#201173 - 01/24/08 05:23 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: roadrunner]
Minute2Minute Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 01/11/08
Posts: 70
Loc: MB, Canada
I am a good person because.....(the silence at this point is deafening):

I do not judge others;

I am compassionate and caring;

I LISTEN (even though right now I can't hear);

I do not want to hurt others (emotionally, physically, mentally or sexually);

I have asked for help, not only to achieve my own inner peace, but because the people around me who care deserve to have the best me they can get - and I see the impact of my pain on them.

I accept that my actions in recent years that have hurt people (those that I care about and those that care about me) are my actions - but I will try every day to understand and grow and change so I do not make those mistakes again;

I want to communicate and understand my emotions in a "healthy" way (I haven't learned how, and I want to learn now);

I will fight every day to prove my abusers wrong.

I guess the silence wasn't that deafening after all.


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#201175 - 01/24/08 05:34 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: Minute2Minute]
GateKPR4 Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 10/28/07
Posts: 955
Loc: North Carolina, USA
I am a good person because
I am here getting the help I need
I care about myself and those around me
I am a good friend
I can help others
I am willing to learn a new way of seeing myself & my life

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I'm a normal person dealing with abnormal experiences.
The greatest discoveries we will find within ourselves.
Ricky
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#201228 - 01/24/08 11:41 PM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: GateKPR4]
blueshift Offline
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Registered: 01/21/08
Posts: 1242
Loc: infinity
I guess this is a real sore spot for me. I started thinking about what I would say in this thread and it threw me into a crying fit.

The guy who raped me four years ago wouldn't cry about not feeling like a good person. Why should I when I've never intentionally tried to hurt anyone except in self defense? OK, now that I think about it, that's not entirely true. But there's no doubt in my mind that I've helped people more than I have hurt them. Might have even saved a life. I just feel so worthless. I feel like a piece of sh*.

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My Story
My Art

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#201283 - 01/25/08 08:36 AM Re: I Am A Good Person, because [Re: roadrunner]
ErikSA Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 01/02/08
Posts: 5
Loc: Gauteng, South Africa
I am a good person because I finally take action to try and
- save myself
- save my marriage
- be a loving father to my child (and unborn due soon)!

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Live to ride and ride to live!

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