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#428047 - 03/14/13 03:30 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
BuffaloCO Offline


Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 176
Loc: USA
By the time I was around 8, 5 men had used me. Another tried but did not get away with it. That put my programming in place even into college, where profs also had their fun. But I got into T and am not being played anymore. Will get back to school and this time will be safe.
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#428048 - 03/14/13 03:47 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: BuffaloCO]
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Edited by pufferfish (03/14/13 03:48 PM)

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#428049 - 03/14/13 03:52 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: pufferfish]
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#428052 - 03/14/13 05:00 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
SoccerStar Offline
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Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 383
Loc: New York
"Matt and the Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day," starring me aged 8.
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#428056 - 03/14/13 05:21 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
bodyguard8367 Offline
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Loc: Pacific North West
Coach,

I post quite a bit on male survivor,

It started when I was about 6, raped at 8, idk, it all blends together.

I can talk about how to let it go and what to do to get rid of some of the pain.

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#428059 - 03/14/13 05:54 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
Farmer Boy Offline
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Registered: 08/23/12
Posts: 375
Loc: Australia
Me...I was 3 when it first started and about 6 when it got really bad. For me there is no before. I always was and am trying hard not to continue to be a sexual play thing for other males.

By 6 I was well trained and that was just the beginning..... puberty bought with it a whole new set of problems.

Lee
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#428070 - 03/14/13 07:43 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Farmer Boy]
pufferfish Offline

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I was still 3 also. Victimization at that age caused dissociative disorder and a lot of other symptoms.

Puffer

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#428076 - 03/14/13 08:04 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
traveler Offline


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started at 5 1/2 and continued till 13 - so both pre- and also during puberty. another incident at about 15-16 after i thought it was over. still in the same unhealthy atmosphere until 18, though no overt activity.
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They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me.
Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long.
But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked.
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#428088 - 03/14/13 09:55 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
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#428104 - 03/14/13 11:32 PM Re: Prepubescent Sexual Victimization/Violation [Re: Coach]
Jacob S Offline
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Registered: 01/01/13
Posts: 224
I don't f*cking know right now. The feelings are all outside the black box, the source is still wrapped up inside. Sometimes I feel like I remember less but hurt more as time goes on.
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