I can contribute to your great thread too. My little brother was with me when I was being orally raped and variously hurt nd beaten by militry guys. I was 10 then, and he was 7. I think that could damage him quite strongly. The f*cking b*tches did not rape him, only touched maybe, and that is better. He is having issues. You are not alone with your problem.
When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!