what do I do if I hate sex? I'm stuck in an adolescent phase where I want to be with girls but I don't want it to get sexual...I hate sex. what options are there for us?

Hi Scott, I don't know if this fits you, but it is a interesting book to read. Sexual Anorexia by Patrick Carnes, Ph.D. In some ways this book fits me better than his books on Sexual Addict.
Patrick Carnes, Ph.D.

Take care,
Clifford

i feel the same way scott. when i hit puberty i'd pray god would take away all my erections. i dunno somehow there's gotta be a way through this...

Personally I can't add much by my experience - I sexualized EVERYTHING I did from 5 through 20 years old; however when my daughter married, she announced she was marrying her best friend. In the years since, I know that to be true. Most relationships begin as friendships. As you begin to enjoy each others company, your relationship may grow and naturally develop in other directions. Be friends first...enjoy just being you with another. Good luck!!

Howard

I'm very much the same way Scott. I like Howard's idea of friend's first. I try to do this and I'm always left stunned when things turn sexual, it's like I never saw it coming. It seems like the time I need to get to know people is huge compared to other's. I do think when I move into thinking about another sexually it will because we are best friends first. I think it will just be a natural change in my thinking. Trust?

Mike

i've been research sexual anorexia lately - its quite interesting - you might be able to relate to it as well.