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#193350 - 12/01/07 03:32 PM Message from Nyjah
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
As many of you already know, Nyjah suffers from serious eating disorders associated with what happened to him when he was younger. It's a constant challenge to him to keep his weight up within safe limits, and when he can't do that it makes him feel bad about himself. I keep telling him that all he can do is his best - he should be proud of that.

This is one of those moments when Nyjah needs our support. He has just messaged me saying he has to return to the hospital because his weight is too low; he wanted to tell everyone here, but he felt bad talking about it. He has asked me to put his message up for him.

If you wish to leave messages of encouragement for him please do so here. He does have occasional computer access and will be able to read whatever we can say to support him.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#193355 - 12/01/07 04:01 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: roadrunner]
BJK Offline
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Registered: 08/02/07
Posts: 1526
I'll be thinking about you, Nyjah. I'm proud of you for making it this far, and though I can't feel your pain for you, please know that I understand.

You're a courageous guy. None of us doubt that.

Bryan

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Revenge is nothing more than another way of perpetuating abuse.

What the world needs now
Is some new words of wisdom
Like la la la la la la la la la.
-David Lowery

Having a friend who will keep a secret for you is worthless compared to a friend who won't keep a secret from you.

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#193358 - 12/01/07 04:06 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: BJK]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1674
Loc: Moscow, Russia
Thinking of you, Nyjah.

I hope you will recover soon.

Take care,
Alexey

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When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!

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#193360 - 12/01/07 04:17 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: alexey]
James_dup1 Offline


Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
Just remember you have lots of freinds pulling for you man. Keep up the good fight.

In loveing support,
James

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I have more issues than Rolling Stone!


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#193361 - 12/01/07 04:19 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: alexey]
dannym Offline
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Registered: 03/24/07
Posts: 543
Loc: Boulder, Colorado
Nyjah, as a fellow survivor and someone who strugged with bulemia and anorexia when I was younger, I send you all my love and support. You will get through this, you will get your weight back up a bit and move forward - healing is a long process, and each step is difficult, but hopefully the love of all the men here will ease the burden.

You are in my thoughts,
Dan

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"You should listen to your heart, and not the voices in your head."

Marge Simpson

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#193369 - 12/01/07 05:43 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: dannym]
WalkingSouth Offline
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Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16264
Nyjah,

Like I've told you before, you're one of my hero's. You fight this so hard, and frankly I'm proud of you. Just keep on trying. Life is made up of victories and setbacks. We'll be there for you either way just like you have been for us.

Lots of love,

John

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“Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy ____…! What a ride!’” ~Hunter S. Thompson

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#193375 - 12/01/07 07:15 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: WalkingSouth]
KENKEN Offline
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Registered: 09/25/07
Posts: 762
Loc: NOTHERN COLORADO
Nyjah:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. You are a very courageous man. We at MS are all here for you. Hope to see your post real soon again.

Until then

Ken

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I AM A GOOD PERSON, I AM A GOOD MAN

From the Movie: Antwone Fisher

***WOR ALUMNI SEQUOIA MARCH 2008***

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#193376 - 12/01/07 07:17 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: WalkingSouth]
sabata Offline
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Registered: 08/08/06
Posts: 1948
Nyjah-------------------please take care of yourself--------------you deserve so much more----------------dont feel bad----------------hoping the best for you------------------steve


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#193379 - 12/01/07 08:06 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: sabata]
mogigo Offline
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Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
Nyjah, sending you my good thought's.

Hoping you feel better soon
Mike

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#193391 - 12/01/07 10:22 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: mogigo]
Muldoon Offline
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Registered: 05/30/02
Posts: 1428
Loc: St Paul MN
Nyjah I will be sending poisitive energy you way.

Tom

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Teach the Children to Never Hide in the Silence

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#193392 - 12/01/07 10:26 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: Muldoon]
MemoryVault Offline
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Registered: 03/01/07
Posts: 693
Loc: NJ
Nyjah --

I wish you all the health and strength this site has - we're all here for you! Get yourself all the help you need, and let us know how you're doing when you can!

David


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#193396 - 12/02/07 01:03 AM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: MemoryVault]
Brian Offline
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Registered: 05/03/01
Posts: 1563
Loc: Upstate NY
Nyjah,

All of us here at MS are pulling for you! Take care of yourself; we look forward to your return!

Brian

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Recovery is Possible!

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#193427 - 12/02/07 09:15 AM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: Muldoon]
Gerald2007 Offline
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Registered: 08/03/07
Posts: 157
Loc: Southeastern US
Nyjah,

You are in my prayers for healing.

Gerald

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Alumnus: Weekend of Recovery - Dahlonega, May 2008 and May 2009
We are bound together by the pain of the past and our hopes for the future.

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#193429 - 12/02/07 09:27 AM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: Gerald2007]
GateKPR4 Offline
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Registered: 10/28/07
Posts: 955
Loc: North Carolina, USA
Nyjah,
Taking care of yourself is important and nothing to feel bad about.
I can relate to the hospital stay because I had more than my share of time in them. Reaching out has always been hard for me too. I wish you well and lots of progress.
peace & blessings
Rick

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I'm a normal person dealing with abnormal experiences.
The greatest discoveries we will find within ourselves.
Ricky
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#193489 - 12/02/07 07:09 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: GateKPR4]
TJ jeff Offline

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Registered: 08/07/04
Posts: 3362
Loc: Northern Wisconsin
Sending healing thoughts your way Nyjah

you will get past this - it is good and a sign of courage and strength that you are letting others help you

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Who will cry for the little boy? - I will... - Antwone Fisher

Abuse happens in silence/isolation - Recovery happens only when that silence/isolation is broken...

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#193512 - 12/02/07 10:36 PM Re: Message from Nyjah [Re: TJ jeff]
KeithR Offline
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Registered: 10/28/06
Posts: 363
Loc: Georgia
Hey Nyjah,

Sorry to hear you've headed back to the hospital. I've been thinkin about you, and I hope you're feeling ok. I'll look for you online and hope to see you here soon.

Maybe you can join us one Wednesday at our circle.

Take care of yourself.

Keith


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