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#192714 - 11/26/07 11:46 AM leaving
easterneurope Offline

Registered: 07/11/07
Posts: 60
Loc: eastern europe
My wife is leaving me in a few days, taking the children, unable to deal with the knowledge that my abuse has ramifications. We live in Europe so she'll go to USA. Funny, I thought we'd make it.


#192715 - 11/26/07 11:50 AM Re: leaving [Re: easterneurope]
James_dup1 Offline

Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
Sorry to hear that man. Just know we are here to support you.


I have more issues than Rolling Stone!

#192727 - 11/26/07 02:20 PM Re: leaving [Re: James_dup1]
thesun3 Offline

Registered: 11/06/07
Posts: 49
Sorry for your loss. We are here for you.

In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.

#192946 - 11/28/07 08:36 AM Re: leaving [Re: thesun3]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
I'm so sorry to hear that. If you need to talk, please do know you have our understanding and support.

Much love,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

#192980 - 11/28/07 11:38 AM Re: leaving [Re: easterneurope]
thecoopstah Offline

Registered: 07/19/04
Posts: 589
Loc: massachusetts
I'm so sorry about your wife leaving you however it could perhaps be a blessing in disquise afterall most people dont know how to handle the abuse and it's ripple effect but please know one thing you're not a failure nor are you anything less then a man with a tremendous amount of courage.

God bless you in your healing process.


" You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have "

#192990 - 11/28/07 01:04 PM Re: leaving [Re: thecoopstah]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1674
Loc: Moscow, Russia
I am sorry too. Don't blame yourself!


When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!

#193067 - 11/28/07 11:16 PM Re: leaving [Re: alexey]
easterneurope Offline

Registered: 07/11/07
Posts: 60
Loc: eastern europe
OK.... I put the family on a plane this morning. I'll join them in 2 weeks. She's assured me she's not "leaving" leaving, only needing space. I am so broken. I've caused her so much pain.


#193072 - 11/28/07 11:44 PM Re: leaving [Re: easterneurope]
Hauser Offline

Registered: 11/12/05
Posts: 2963
Loc: United States
WHAT do you mean you've "caused her pain"? Have you been cheating on her? Have you been abusing her? Have you been abusive towards your kids? Have you not been able to support them? Have you been in trouble with the law? Just what do you mean by "causing her pain"? I need some clarification before I can really add any useful comments, ok?

#193109 - 11/29/07 07:14 AM Re: leaving [Re: Hauser]
Paul1959 Offline

Registered: 05/17/06
Posts: 525
Loc: NYC
It must hurt like crazy. I'm sorry. Thank goodness for the hope that she is not leaving for good. Meanwhile, post here like crazy with all the feelings that are crashing around inside of you. Use this place and us, ok?


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