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#192782 - 11/27/07 01:41 AM PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!!
krayoss Offline
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Registered: 02/18/01
Posts: 112
Loc: west
PLEASE!! Beware that ANYTHING POSTED HERE can wind up in the most public of forums



Edited by krayoss (04/08/08 12:21 PM)

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#192786 - 11/27/07 06:01 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: krayoss]
GateKPR4 Offline
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Registered: 10/28/07
Posts: 955
Loc: North Carolina, USA
There was a privacy statement but the link is down. So I don't know if there was anything in there about our posts being public domain. But I knew anybody could see the public forums. Thats how I decided I wanted to join.
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yeah, I came up with posts I made all over the net in the course of my recovery. Not just stuff from here. I help with other groups too and some of those came up also. My mistake is I have been using this name for almost 10 years now. The hits from MS are from the public forums and not from the private members area. I'm not saying its right but I still post my most personal stuff in the members area. my post opening up after 25 years may help someone else that is still suffering. Its not that big a deal for me. Most people that know my screen name know I have had problems over the years, if they find my posts they know the truth. I'm not ashamed anymore, it happened and I'm not hiding it.
but I still didn't know we could google and get hits from here.
Peace
Rick

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#192787 - 11/27/07 06:27 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: GateKPR4]
BJK Offline
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If it wasn't for google, I'd have never found this place.

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#192788 - 11/27/07 06:31 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: BJK]
sabata Offline
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Registered: 08/08/06
Posts: 1948
are you refering to your -real name?or your screen name here???????????


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#192790 - 11/27/07 06:46 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: BJK]
onlyakid Offline
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Registered: 03/31/04
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Loc: New Jersey
Anything posted on any site that doesn't require a password to view can be googled. I wouldn't worry about it unless alot of people know your screenname, in which case, I would PM Nathan or email webmaster@malesurvivor.org and have it changed. Don't open a new account because multiple accounts aren't allowed due to security concerns.

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#192791 - 11/27/07 06:57 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: onlyakid]
Paul1959 Offline
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Registered: 05/17/06
Posts: 525
Loc: NYC
Male Survivor Public Forums is just that. And there is a disclaimer at the top of each forum that states
"Notice: All posts in this forum are viewable by the public."

Don't Panic. No one knows who you are unless you have used your full name to post. The public side of this site is immensely important. Thousands of guys have found this site from Google and start reading posts. Most guys would never register in order to read this stuff and it helps give them courage once they start reading.

Again, I understand the paranoia that everybody will know about "the secret" but it just won't happen. You are simply known as your screen name. If you want more privacy, pay to join the member's side and it is more secure.

Paul


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#192792 - 11/27/07 07:26 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: Paul1959]
GateKPR4 Offline
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Registered: 10/28/07
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Loc: North Carolina, USA
I had one concern and that I have taken care of. I just set my profile to private and now only my friends can see it. This was only due to all the pictures of my family that could identify me to an outsider. There are some people that I just don't want to know about my life. There is still some sick people out there that I would rather not deal with. I am more concerned about old cult members trying to find me. But I really don't think they will and it is wise if you belong to any other group where you use the same screen name take your personal identifiable information off the site.

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#192796 - 11/27/07 08:58 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: GateKPR4]
WalkingSouth Offline
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Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16265
As Paul says, at the top of each of the Public forums there is a disclaimer that basically says anything you post in the forum can be viewed by anyone who cares to look. If it can be viewed by anyone it can also be viewed by Google or any other search engine.

The same is not true of any posts on the Members side of the forums. They are not searchable or viewable by search engines or the general public.

John



Edited by walkingsouth (11/27/07 08:59 AM)
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#192938 - 11/28/07 08:08 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! *DELETED* [Re: Paul1959]
krayoss Offline
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Registered: 02/18/01
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#192942 - 11/28/07 08:24 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: krayoss]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
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Loc: Carlisle, PA
Krayoss,

I can imagine your shock! But qe do have an important outreach function, and most of the guys who are now registered and using the site were first lurkers (as we call them) who came in anonymously and read for awhile before deciding to take the leap.

As someone else has said, you should assume that anything on the Net that doesn't sit behind a password can be googled. Personally speaking, I'm one of the many who found the site through Google.

If you have really private or confidential things to talk about, put them on the Members' Side or just PM a few trusted friends.

Much love,
Larry

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#193002 - 11/28/07 01:29 PM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: roadrunner]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
Posts: 1674
Loc: Moscow, Russia
rayoss,

I understand you completely. I had the same shock and fear after posting my story with my real email on HeathyPlace.

Just remember to look into DB guidelines. No real names and personal info! It will keep you safe from the eyes of those you don't want to know about your private life.

We can discuss it more, so feel free to PM me with anything you want to talk about.

Alexey

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#193098 - 11/29/07 04:24 AM Re: PRIVACY BREACH BEWARE!!!! [Re: krayoss]
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Registered: 11/25/07
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The reason my name is onthenet is because I was drugged using Rohyponol, raped and then my rape was posted on the internet. I thank God for this place and I want people to know what happened to me. I'm paranoid schizoid effective and it took me ten years and leaving the state where it happened before I could even put it all together. I'm in the Arts and I'm a damn good writer but because of this footage no one in Hollywood would take me seriously. Worse because it was male on male rape it was sodomy and where heterosexual rape has no statute of limitations in California sodomy has ten years. I think I made it under the statute of limitations but for me publicity is what I need. People think I wanted this to happen to me. I've had readings at The Beverly Hills Playhouse which is no mean feat one of the actors passed the video around during the rehearsal when I wasn't present and the reading was lackluster to say the least. It's been ten years of trying and being laughed at every turn. Humiliation isn't something so new to me as I went to school soaked in my brother's urine, was beat out in the street with an extension cord atleast twice a week and though I wasn't sodomized as a child. Another seriously hard thing to do I managed to attain a 3.0 and score off the charts in my State Assesment Test. What was my reward? Ice Cream. No. Money. No. It was another beating in the street. I get so mad when I realize that it was because of my parent's perverse nature that I want to holler!!! But each day I forgive them and I wait for the day when I'll be able to do my art professionally. So in a public forum is where I want to be and if it wasn't for malesurvivor to be able to connect with other people and know I'm not alone. I don't know if I could make it.


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