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#194515 - 12/08/07 10:11 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: Candy]
des6263 Offline
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Registered: 09/15/06
Posts: 137
Loc: midwest, US
Wow, i am so sorry, it must be very tough.

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#194550 - 12/09/07 08:54 AM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: des6263]
Hauser Offline
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Registered: 11/12/05
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Loc: United States
Candy. Have you exhausted all of your legal recourses? If this is so, it's time to go to the next level. Contact your local State Representative, explain your story in detail to him, and NAME the people who are ignoring you. If your story seems plausible and he feels that the system that is supposed to be protecting you is failing, heads may very well start rolling.

Remember, politicians LOVE to take public and noticeable actions that pertain to "protecting children". I suggest that you use this to your advantage. Personally, I would like to see you do this, because I dread to think that your child might grow up with CSA issues and that your efforts to do something about it come to nothing.


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#194553 - 12/09/07 09:56 AM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: Hauser]
Still Offline
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Registered: 02/16/07
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Loc: 2.5 NATO Nations
Just my opinion here...with the evidence you have re the 3-yo and the symptoms displayed by the 11-yo. The 11-yo IS currently or WAS a CSA victim.

As for the 11-yo disclosing...it may be 30 years before he does. It took me 32 years, otherwise, I considered it to be an unspeakable subject.

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#194563 - 12/09/07 12:15 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: Still]
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Registered: 08/30/05
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Candy,

Sounds to me like you've got some people in high places who are protecting other people, perhaps because they have problems also? Who knows? I find it hard to believe that no one you've talked with has been the least bit concerned over this. Perhaps Hauser has some good advise.



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#194620 - 12/09/07 11:31 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: WalkingSouth]
Candy Offline
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Registered: 11/19/07
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yes, it is horrible. But here is my next plan..and if nothing comes from that then i suppose i will try the politician route...great idea by the way.

I am putting in a request to approve the parenting plan immediately, which severly restricts visitation. I will also request supervision, and therapy for the dad and kids. I have no idea if the judge will agree, but there is alot more to the story (not CSA related) that I think the judge will look at that will convince him there needs to be supervision.

And Robbie, you just stopped my heart with that comment. Because I know you are right...my poor baby \:\(

Candy


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#194689 - 12/10/07 01:19 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: Candy]
Lazarus Offline
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Registered: 07/01/07
Posts: 851
Loc: Below the radar, USA
Yes, and poor Robbie too! God save us all...

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#194743 - 12/10/07 09:00 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: Candy]
Candy Offline
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Registered: 11/19/07
Posts: 12
and God WIll bless us all !!! All these trials are for some higher purpose only God knows.

Candy


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#197783 - 01/03/08 05:20 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS *DELETED* [Re: Candy]
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Registered: 12/30/07
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#197786 - 01/03/08 05:56 PM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: Freedom49]
evanesence Offline
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Registered: 12/08/07
Posts: 119
wanna borrow my 45? i guess it's what they did to me ,but it would be so hard for me to not just blow the bastard away ,im really glad your not me,it's that kind of control they took from me i think. the damage caused when the father is the abuser goes so far beyond the sa part ,hell thats not the part that hurts the most ,it's the total destruction of trust ,in anyone or anything that lingers forever,it's like ok god made the world ,god made dads care about their sons ,what does a kid have to hold onto when even the basic instinctive things we are all born with are non existant in the most important person in his life? nothing . it's only fondling?! insane .


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#197862 - 01/04/08 10:23 AM Re: New question (re son accusing dad) TRIGGERS [Re: evanesence]
AndyJB2005 Offline
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Registered: 11/14/06
Posts: 1242
Loc: Saint Paul, Minnesota
Wow.

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