I've gone to a therapist that is trained in helping children and adult-children who were sexually abused. My experience was helpful and led me here. I can't believe the "therapist" you described is adequately trained or licensed...The standard of therapists is to be non- judgemental, and do no harm...this "therapist is obviously unqualified to help a sexual abuse survivor. What he has done is validate what so many male sexual abuse victims have heard from others and from their own shame and guilt...."IT'S YOUR FAULT"..."YOU ARE A LIAR"..."YOU WANTED IT."
Get rid of this "THERAPIST" who continues to perpetuate pain and shame.
In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.