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#191629 - 11/16/07 03:13 PM All or nothing
onlyakid Offline

Registered: 03/31/04
Posts: 1556
Loc: New Jersey
Why do I feel like ALL of my issues have to be related to my abuse or none of them are? Its wierd. Another thing is that when I have a good day, I feel like maybe the abuse didn't effect me.

"Being with people that understand you...Priceless"

"and i don't want the world to see me, cause i don't think that they'd understand"

"You don't know what love just do as your told"

"My life has changed. What you take as a simple thing, is not so simple for me anymore"

#191630 - 11/16/07 03:19 PM Re: All or nothing [Re: onlyakid]
Hauser Offline

Registered: 11/12/05
Posts: 2963
Loc: United States
Probably because you're looking at things through the foggy lenses of sexual abuse, and you have little idea of what it's like to view things "normally".

#191633 - 11/16/07 03:47 PM Re: All or nothing [Re: Hauser]
midnight51 Offline

Registered: 09/02/03
Posts: 140
Loc: Cleveland, Ohio
It sounds like you are still wondering yourself "Did it really happen?" Sometimes you can make it through just wondering... sometimes you can't. Either way I think you will be okay.

Lots of love



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