I don't know what to say except to assure you that as we relearn how to feel, it's almost inevitable that we go through a stage where we are flooded and overwhelmed as all the feelings pour out. I told my T it was like an emotional hurricane.
Have you told your wife what you say in this post? I bet she would like to hear it. After all, these issues are affecting you too.
How are you making out with the specific problems you are having? PM me if you like and we can talk about them. I am still in the States, but I will be back on the other side of the pond on Tuesday.
Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)