just to clarify
... i think i'm violating my own boundary by writing this lol ... i'm not sure if i am or not ... what i'm taking a break from is being so addicted to reading posts and visiting the chat room ... i'm not taking a break for any "bad" reason ... mostly, i was just spending too much time here ... it's VERY addictive ... and it was taking away from time spent on other things ...
but, i just wanted to say thank you so much for the good wishes and the support ...
and ...
my marriage relationship is going very well ... things have finally clicked completely and the one thing that was holding me back from committing my all - honest & open communication about anything and everything - has been resolved ... and we both feel a great deal better for it ... i feel like now, almost exactly one year later (after disclosure), we have the great marriage we were truly destined to have ... and are becoming the people we were destined to be ... my husband's progress in therapy and his own healing journey have been astounding (a part of that is his participation in the men's healing circle here) and i've healed a lot of my own csa and other stuff as well ... and basically we're just having a whole lot of fun together ...
... especially when i'm not online all evening lol
and a lot of that progress has been due to support and information i got here at ms ...
so anyway ... i'm taking a break from reading here so much and chatting so much, which is a weakness of mine ... other than that, things are very, very good ...
hugs and big, huge thanks,
selene
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"And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye." ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery from The Little Prince