thanks kelly...see the only reason we have had contact with him in these years is because my husband wanted to have a realtionship with his brother...he has always loved his brother "looked up to him", and has allowed his brother to step all over him for years..I am glad that he has finally took that step to direct his anger where it belongs. It has been very hard in going through this, especially after I initially found out about the abuse a year before we were married...and had to still accept his brother into my family, only cause that was what my husband wanted at the time. I guess then he though he could handal it all on his own...and god knows what was going through his mind at that time. I will discuss this with him, I am sure he will apreciate your responses!
"Just Breath" Your here and that makes all the difference!.....(wife of a surviver, trying to survive as well!) Here to get some answers and support...Here to do what I can to be a hearing ear.....Thankyou to all of you, ahead of time!