Up at the top of the screen for this thread, you'll see where it says:
MaleSurvivor >> Forums >> MaleSurvivor Public Forums >> Off Topic >> just a friendly warning
There's a whole other set of forums on the Members side, similar to the ones on the Public side. So this post is on the public side, but there are other forums that become available once you become a dues-paying member. Which is kind of nice, because you can talk about different things there that you might not necessarily want out on the public side.