Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a paedo

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#254098 - 10/10/08 01:54 AM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: RICK57]
Morning Star Member Registered: 12/21/04 Posts: 1124 Loc: Home	Few decades down the line, I know forgiveness is a journey, and a bridge, we cross over, whenever we are ready and want to move into a better life! _________________________ ~ It's over!...Let go of Thy Past, Remember Thy Self ~ Why Don't People Heal, by Caroline Myss; 30 days to clean up your vibrations - Abraham-Hicks
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#254134 - 10/10/08 09:23 AM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: ineffable]
Davesc Registered: 09/24/08 Posts: 67 Loc: NJ	49 Because you taught me ,If I liked another guy I should have sex with him to be close. _________________________ Davesc _______________________________________ Thankful Wor Kirkridge Alumni Oct 2008
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#254211 - 10/10/08 05:10 PM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: ineffable]
oriolesguy Registered: 08/12/08 Posts: 100 Loc: Long Island, NY	49. YOU want forgiveness? How can you expect it when I haven't even forgiven myself yet?!!
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#254415 - 10/11/08 12:15 PM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: oriolesguy]
M3 Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 09/04/07 Posts: 1392 Loc: Central Ohio	I was kind of hesitant to say anything, but I think this thread should have been better called: "Absolve: 1001 Reasons Not to Absolve an Abuser" They don't want to be forgiven, they want to be absolved: Originally Posted By: http://www.m-w.com absolve 1: to set free from an obligation or the consequences of guilt 2: to remit (a sin) by absolution Forgiving is something we do for us, to no longer give our time and energy to the abuser, but to take it back and let go. Absolving is for the abuser, to set them free of their obligations, their guilt and shame, for what they did. I have forgiven my abusers for me because I want to heal and no longer be angry. I want to live a positive life. I will NEVER absolve my abusers. NEVER. That is for them to seek from whom ever they feel can provide that for them. Their God, their loved ones, the judge, but they shall NEVER get this from me. May we all find forgiveness so we can move on with our lives and no longer waste one second on our abusers. May our abusers feel the weight of their guilt and shame multiply day by day as they forever seek to be absolved but to no avail. Peace and love my brothers... Michael
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#254425 - 10/11/08 01:01 PM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: M3]
pufferfish Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 02/26/08 Posts: 6161 Loc: USA	Good point Michael Allen puffer
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#254469 - 10/11/08 08:17 PM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: pufferfish]
deck Member Registered: 08/19/06 Posts: 109 Loc: Indiana	50.) Because you told me that I'd never be a man and laughed about it. 51.) Because I've never felt like a man.
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#254494 - 10/11/08 09:26 PM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: deck]
RICK57 Member Registered: 12/31/03 Posts: 1610 Loc: ENGLAND	I'm amazed. It's not that often that I visit this site now (because I am recovering - this site got me there), but I had this feeling tonight that I must. I started this post around 1 year ago. It's been picked up all most a year later. Strange isn't it? Just this week in England we had 'a dead paedophile' discovered in the woods! He'd previously abused several girls (3 confirmed) from age 13 downwards. He got 6 years in jail for that. He was recently released from 'his sentence' after about 3.5 years. Seems like somebody didn't like the parole terms and came up with another deal. Somebody didn't want to forgive! Best wishes! Rik _________________________ Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up. I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope! *There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!
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#254556 - 10/12/08 08:16 AM Re: Forgiveness - 1001 reasons not to forgive a pa [Re: RICK57]
ineffable Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 02/07/08 Posts: 1371 Loc: state of holeecrapdood	(inspired by the above post) Were there any other occurances that could be "hung" on him after his release? 52. Because I want to gloat over your vigilante murder. _________________________ :: "Anyone who can handle a needle convincingly can make us see a thread which is not there" ::
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