ive had lot to put up with dh. the acting out by looking to hook up with guys from the intenrt- porn 2. any time now that i cant acnount 4 wher he is i worry. any time he shifts in how he acts with me an our boys i worry. any time his phne rings way late or 2 early worry. this is not good so much worry. if he knew this of me would he hav put up with so much. how can i trust a man that tossed my trust away. why wood i want to. i feel sad by this.
k

k,

Your have good reason for your sadness. If he is currently acting out and hooking up I'd say you need to take steps to protect yourself. This is a boundary he should not be crossing for so many reasons, a primary one being your own personal health and safety. You deserve so much better. His victimization should not be allowed to trump you and your children's happiness and health.

If I've misunderstood the situation, please forgive me.

Lots of love,

John