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#185045 - 10/05/07 10:29 PM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: DREAMCATCHER]
rcm Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 08/24/07
Posts: 156
Loc: Boston, MA
Hello and welcome. I am Raul and have talked a lot with your husband. I consider him my friend and I am happy to meet you and that you are here. I hope the best for both of you and really hope you find support in here. I wish you and him the best.
~Raul

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#185158 - 10/06/07 11:56 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: trusty]
DREAMCATCHER Offline
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Registered: 10/03/07
Posts: 14
Loc: ENGLAND
Hi Russ many thanks for sharing with me, hope tnings work out well for you both, Inner peace to you.... I think we have a long up hill walk ahead, hope BS and I can walk it together, time will tell, still getting used to using this site and a computer, BS is a great teacher, hope he is as good a pupil !!!!

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#185164 - 10/06/07 12:03 PM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: rcm]
DREAMCATCHER Offline
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Registered: 10/03/07
Posts: 14
Loc: ENGLAND
Hi Raul many thanks for message, We have a long walk to go yet i think, they say time is a great healer, Hope it goes well, seems to be a lot of supprt here, which is nice to know. Once again many thanks hope to talk with you in chat some time. Peace to you

Dreamcatcher

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Hope your dreams are of Self Love and Inner Peace,Your thought is your creation, Create a world of Love and Light for all to live in.
Collective thought is very powerful

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#185396 - 10/07/07 05:38 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife [Re: trusty]
sweet-n-sour Offline
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Registered: 10/03/06
Posts: 409
Loc: chicago
Just a quick welcome to the family & friends forum.



Edited by sweet-n-sour (10/07/07 10:49 AM)
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#185403 - 10/07/07 06:40 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: sweet-n-sour]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
Dreamcatcher,

I'm so glad you signed up! Knowing that our partner is with us in dealing with our problems is so important, and at the same time a genuine challenge - something to aim for. You'll be amazed at how much the little things mean. For example, you replied to one of his poems and told him you love him. You can't imagine how vital that is to a survivor; so many of us go through stages where we feel utterly unlovable.

The group of partners here is such a great bunch, and I have to say it was a revelation for me when I began coming in here to read. Until I began doing that I really had no idea how my abuse issues were affecting my wife. For you, as a partner, I bet it will prove to be a vital opportunity to share feelings and ideas and see how NOT alone you really are.

Much love,
Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#185413 - 10/07/07 08:19 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: roadrunner]
kayak Offline
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Registered: 05/01/06
Posts: 22
Loc: Atlanta, GA
Dreamcatcher;
I am so pleased to make your acquaintance; I chatted with BackSpin just this morning. (Ironically enough, he mentioned RoadRunner as being so very supportive also.) Bspin mentioned the challenges he is facing very soon, and RRunner's support and upcoming personal visit. Just seeing you in the Forums DCatcher - setting up an identity and willing to be a part of BackSpin's journey says a lot about your character and love for him. Buckle your seat belt, welcome to our community, and get ready for the ride of your life! There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and it may seem like an oncoming train at times, but every huge journey starts with the hardest step - the first one! And that one is already behind you! And remember, both of you, every burden shared is a burden now half as heavy.


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#185424 - 10/07/07 09:46 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: kayak]
DREAMCATCHER Offline
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Registered: 10/03/07
Posts: 14
Loc: ENGLAND
Roadrunner and Kayak thank you both for your welcome and words of wisdom,
I want to engulf you all in a big white fluffy cloud, and sprinkle you with light refreshing spring rain
To cleanse away all your hurt so you can start again,
To land again on this Wonderful planet Earth,
And go through life knowing and feeling your Worth...

As you have so much to give to humanity.
Have you heard: Macho is out, Tenderness is in..it takes a Real Person to be up front, open and honest about themselves and makes for a much better understanding of who we really are..So keep on keeping on...Many thanks and much Peace to you.



Edited by DREAMCATCHER (10/07/07 09:47 AM)
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Hope your dreams are of Self Love and Inner Peace,Your thought is your creation, Create a world of Love and Light for all to live in.
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#185809 - 10/09/07 06:51 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: DREAMCATCHER]
kayak Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 05/01/06
Posts: 22
Loc: Atlanta, GA
DreamCatcher,

Wow, I am so excited to have talked with Backspin the last few mornings!

Just yesterday he was so downtrodden. Today, he speaks with great determination (despite tremendous fear!) regarding his love for you and his desire to share his past and burdens with you, his wife. He is so ready to pour out his heart, and I am excited for him because - by virtue of your involvement here at MS - you will be a great listener!

Prepared and informed, you will not be shocked. You've done your research and he is not expecting you to have any answers, just compassion and a listening ear. He is a lucky guy!

I hope I haven't taken words out of his mouth, or betrayed his trust in sharing this with you. I am just so encouraged by his determination. You are a lucky gal!


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#185810 - 10/09/07 07:09 AM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: kayak]
DREAMCATCHER Offline
New Here

Registered: 10/03/07
Posts: 14
Loc: ENGLAND
Kayak thanks for your message, as things were not too good when i left the house this am, now i am home and BS is not in, dont know where he is may be Dr's my be dole, not sure, but if he comminicated with me and told me his plans i could have taken him as it is raining out and he does't drive. The silence makes it worse, as i just get more angry inside,it is not as though the problem will go away if not spoken about, its not something you can sweep under the carpet, it needs to be approached and talked about to get any understanding towards a solution. I will awaite his return with a little more hope after reading your words. Many thanks.

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Hope your dreams are of Self Love and Inner Peace,Your thought is your creation, Create a world of Love and Light for all to live in.
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#185948 - 10/09/07 06:20 PM Re: Hi im Backspins wife, [Re: DREAMCATCHER]
violet Offline
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Registered: 08/13/07
Posts: 118
Loc: US
Dreamcatcher,
Still thinking about you. I hope that you are taking care of yourself.

The waiting is the hardest part...

V.

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