Yep. So it's not Sarah's fault at all, right? In fact, it's pretty cool that Sarah cares this much. I mean, she knows you will get jagged by all the rules, etc., and she knows you will get pissed off and let her know you don't like it - but keeping you safe is more important.
So Sarah's the wrong target to get pissed off at, I guess. But the situation still sucks and you don't want to leave it like this, that's for sure. How can you take control? How can you "do something"? What can you do?
Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)