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#184378 - 10/03/07 11:36 AM My wife
SEVEN ARROWS Offline
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Registered: 08/12/07
Posts: 1298
Hello everyone.

I have a question.

I am going into inpatient care in hospital, Roadrunner is helping me with this, and we are meeting in the nexted few days.

Whilst i am inpatient is it OK if my wife uses my log-in name to talk to you all, she is having a hard time coping with me and my problems.

This has nearly broke up our marriage of seven years and i have become to centred on my own problems, i love her and don't want to lose her.

CAN YOU ALL HELP PLEASE

BACKSPIN/SEVEN ARROWS


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#184380 - 10/03/07 11:41 AM Re: My wife [Re: SEVEN ARROWS]
kellygtx Offline
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Registered: 07/11/07
Posts: 412
Loc: Texas, USA
Backspin -

Can she create a login of her own? I just think that would better help her to define her own recovery and get a sense of herself. Just my thoughts.

Also, good luck on the inpatient. I did 6 weeks in March and April of this year inpatient and it saved my life and my marriage. I was with a group of about 12 other guys for most of that time and have a few good friends from the experience. But it was very healing.



Edited by kellygtx (10/03/07 11:41 AM)
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#184383 - 10/03/07 11:54 AM Re: My wife [Re: kellygtx]
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she tried to create a login but it went all wrong, having problems with it.


Thankou

Backspin


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#184393 - 10/03/07 12:32 PM Re: My wife [Re: SEVEN ARROWS]
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The problem is now sorted out with the login.

My wifes MS name is DREAMCATCHER

I hope you can help her, and guide her through this mess.

Thankyou.

Backspin


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#184394 - 10/03/07 12:34 PM Re: My wife [Re: SEVEN ARROWS]
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Registered: 04/05/01
Posts: 1032
Backspin....

Thank you for going into the hospital....getting the help you need. I know its tough but life can be so good when some of the issues are eased.

People are here for your wife...go and focus on getting better.

Brian

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#184398 - 10/03/07 12:45 PM Re: My wife [Re: pain4ever]
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Thankyou

Im scared and worried about going into hospital, but im more worried and scared about what will happen if i do not. Also for all my problems i dont want to lose my wife, i still love her.

Thankyou for being here for my wife everyone..

Backspin


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#184403 - 10/03/07 12:48 PM Re: My wife [Re: SEVEN ARROWS]
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I spent a few weeks in the hospital it did an amazing amount of good. Nothing to fear but anything new is going to be intimidating...I am happy for you taking this huge step...in saving your marriage and your own life.

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#184412 - 10/03/07 01:00 PM Re: My wife [Re: pain4ever]
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A few years ago i spent time in hospital and later i went back in as inpatient in a psychiatric secure unit. Both times it was very bad.
I split several times got aggressive towards staff and myself, i also tried to finish it. I also suffered from several seizures.

But this time i have the love of my wife and the thoughts of several of you here. I am going to beat this and i hope to come out and restart the journey back to my life.

Thankyou

Backspin


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#184413 - 10/03/07 01:01 PM Re: My wife [Re: pain4ever]
trusty Offline
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Registered: 05/14/07
Posts: 167
Loc: Indiana, USA
Dear Backspin,
What a brave thing you are doing...i have great hope for your positive gains while you are away...all the best to you.

Much Love,
Russ/Rej

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#184415 - 10/03/07 01:10 PM Re: My wife [Re: trusty]
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Thankyou Trusty


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#184422 - 10/03/07 01:32 PM Re: My wife [Re: SEVEN ARROWS]
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Loc: Texas, USA
Godspeed my friend.

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Kelly

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#184426 - 10/03/07 01:42 PM Re: My wife [Re: kellygtx]
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Registered: 08/12/07
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Thankyou Kelly

Thankyou for all your messages and post.I will let you all know when i am going inpatient, it will be soon.


Backspin


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#184429 - 10/03/07 02:04 PM Re: My wife [Re: trusty]
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Hi Backspin,

You're wife is more than welcome; I look forward to meeting her. I can only imagine how scary going to inpatient care must be, but reaching out for help is scary and you did that, right? I wish all good things for you.

ROCK ON.........Trish

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#184508 - 10/03/07 08:36 PM Re: My wife [Re: SEVEN ARROWS]
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Registered: 07/17/07
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Loc: Chicago
Backspin,

Take care of yourself and we'll be watching for your wife. She'll be a welcome addition.

Take care,
Angie

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#184556 - 10/04/07 01:14 AM Re: My wife [Re: savemyfam]
selene Offline
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Registered: 11/10/06
Posts: 221
Loc: midwest
you take care and get well, backspin ... your wife is very welcome here and we'll help her all we can ...

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