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#183050 - 09/28/07 04:25 AM trying to relax
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
last few months been kinda rough, keep waking up and shoulders are hurting

trying to go back to bed to get some sleep

taxes due the IRS likes me too much

not much into talking at the moment PMS welcomed

Plus ex wife can read what I type here

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#183142 - 09/28/07 11:27 AM Re: trying to relax [Re: michael Joseph]
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Registered: 12/24/06
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Hi Michael

sorry to hear you are having a difficult time right now. we are all here for you. I know its easy for me to say, but try not to worry if your ex-wife can read things that you post here. If she has any humanity in her she will not use what you type here against you.

So many people do not understand what we are all going through and that we must conform to some sort of social norm. Well i will just say this. society is not "normal".

if people in society where this thing called "normal" i bet we would not need places like this. think i have said too much.

take care of yourself Michael.

Duncan

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#183390 - 09/29/07 01:50 PM Re: trying to relax [Re: duncanUK]
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Mike , you wory to much . let life take care of it self . and who cares what your X can see there are no national secrets here

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#183514 - 09/30/07 04:30 AM Re: trying to relax [Re: OKIE MIKE]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
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Loc: Carlisle, PA
Michael,

I'm glad you posted about your situation these days; kinda sounds like you're anxious in general. Be gentle with yourself and take things one day at a time.

If you are worried about what your ex can see here, you can of course post on the Members' Side, which isn't visible to the public. If you need that feeling of safety, hey, go for it bro. It's okay for us to seek what we need.

Much love,
Larry

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#184281 - 10/03/07 04:54 AM Re: trying to relax [Re: roadrunner]
michael Joseph Offline
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waking up again shoulders hurt

took walk ate gonna shower

It will be cool just tired of it all

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#185807 - 10/09/07 04:28 AM Re: trying to relax [Re: michael Joseph]
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I am not that worried

glad things have improved since 04 when everything fell apart

in general things are better than when I was married

I feel loved and she never really loved me enough to keep me around her money was more important than me so was her precious car, but when she keeps two kids from me and wont let me adopt there is a huge problem.

I love my job, have great friends, and people who love me for who I am, now if I could only sleep.

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#185808 - 10/09/07 04:29 AM Re: trying to relax [Re: michael Joseph]
michael Joseph Offline
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I am sleeping just not 7 hrs in a row

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