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#182614 - 09/26/07 11:17 PM Re: self cutting [Re: kellygtx]
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Registered: 07/19/04
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Thanks alot guys but i need to deal with this through my T

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#182615 - 09/26/07 11:19 PM Re: self cutting [Re: thecoopstah]
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i'm in such a position of confusion i really have no direction i want to go in , however i cant appriciate all the help iv'e gottn from here because it's not easy so absorb...

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#182709 - 09/27/07 09:42 AM Re: self cutting [Re: thecoopstah]
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coopstah, we are all hoping you find some clarity in all of this...and some peace.

V.

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#182713 - 09/27/07 09:49 AM Re: self cutting [Re: violet]
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Coop -

I was thinking about you all night. I know the pain and frustration you feel --- and how cutting seems to make sense. I have told you what I think here - but I also want you to now how much respect I have for you just getting on here to talk about it and telling us where you are at and why.

Namaste -



Edited by kellygtx (09/27/07 09:49 AM)
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#182730 - 09/27/07 10:19 AM Re: self cutting [Re: kellygtx]
thecoopstah Offline
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I have felt never felt the love and support in all my life(w/the acception of my fiancee)then i have in the last several days.

My fiancee is going with me today to my therapy appt and she feels it's real important she told me for her to go.

I am so fortunate to have someone like her who essentially has no clue about the "cutting" ...but she sure trys evereyday.


Lisa and i had another long talk about the cutting and she actually told me that she's worried about me and "now that when i'm at work hon i'm going to be thinking if you're cutting yourself again it worries me" i know it does in fact worry her but it's not so simple to just "stop" the behavior...anyway therapy today should be real interesting and very emotional.

I'll get through it(the cutting and all the feelings iv'e been dealing with and going through lately)

With lots of support perhaps i can get a better perspective in to this unhealthy acting out.


Coop

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#182732 - 09/27/07 10:22 AM Re: self cutting [Re: thecoopstah]
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Coop -

Nothing left to say here but you are so loved. Joy and Peace to you my friend --- just Joy and Peace.

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#182798 - 09/27/07 01:59 PM Re: self cutting [Re: kellygtx]
mmac Offline
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Thanks Coop for letting her in and for letting allof us love you.
We are here for you.
(((COOP)))
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