would agree that one needs to participate to be raped?
my most sincere apologies for a poor choice of words; all i was trying to say was there was no doubt that a sexual act had occurred;
under what circumstances, etc., is what is in question (in a legal sense) and a matter of who says what. that is what would have to be proved, or disproved, in a court of law.
i know how high your emotions are right now, honestly i DO, but in dealing with legal matters, we have to do the best we can to rein in our emotions in order to keep our thoughts focused on what can and cannot be done.
i hope this helps to clarify things.