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#181988 - 09/24/07 12:07 AM
going to court. possible triggers.
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I've decided to go to court to put the SOB who hurt me away. I dont and he gets away with a deal, I stand up and do it, it'll expose who he really is. A sick twisted Mofo.
Adam, my bro :), helped me decide this. Unfortunately I'm really scared at the same time.
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#181990 - 09/24/07 12:13 AM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: Nyjah]
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Nyjah,
I would be scared too, believe it or not. Scared is normal for a situation like you find yourself in.
I have to say that what you are doing is one of the most courageous things I can think of, so Kudo's Buddy.
Do it if you are able. If not, every one of us will understand that also.
John
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#182000 - 09/24/07 04:31 AM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: WalkingSouth]
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go get him nyjah!
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when you float like a cannonball - damien rice
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#182002 - 09/24/07 05:14 AM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: shadowkid]
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Nyjah,
I was much older then you when I spoke in court against one my abusers. And I was very scared, and still rather am afraid of that man even now, fearing he will somehow get out some day. What you are doing is very brave. And courage is what we do even when we are afraid. You are very strong.
VN
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#182019 - 09/24/07 06:56 AM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: Nyjah]
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Registered: 08/01/07
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I admire your bravery, Nyjah.
I wish you the best.
Bryan
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Revenge is nothing more than another way of perpetuating abuse.
What the world needs now
Is some new words of wisdom
Like la la la la la la la la la.
-David Lowery
Having a friend who will keep a secret for you is worthless compared to a friend who won't keep a secret from you.
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#182124 - 09/24/07 04:55 PM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: Hauser]
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Nyjah - the process will not be easy, and there will be times when you wonder why you are doing this. It will not answer all of your questions!
However, I have been there and know how much it takes (a lot). You have truth on your side, remember that at all times - that makes you strong! Remember also, that you clear the path for others to do the same! The more often we bring these crimes into the light, the more fear the paedophiles are going to have.
Be strong, and be proud of what you are now doing! You are saving others by your actions.
Thanks for being another voice in the darkness!
Best wishes ...RIk
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#182200 - 09/24/07 10:41 PM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: RICK57]
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Wishing you good luck Nyjah.
Andrei
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#182202 - 09/24/07 10:53 PM
Re: going to court. possible triggers.
[Re: ak]
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Nyjah that is amazing I wish i had the strength to do what your doing buddy,
remember its okay to be scared but you are in charge now!!!
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