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#179386 - 09/10/07 01:51 AM friday at school
kuurt Offline
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at school on friday my teacher made a joke to the whole class. it freaked me out, but i dont know...sometimes i wonder if im being too sensative. maybe you guys could tell me what you think. this is what he said:

"what is a virgin?
...
...
...
an ugly 3rd grader."

so is it an innocent joke? or am i right to be freaked out?



Edited by kuurt (09/10/07 02:40 AM)
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#179389 - 09/10/07 02:52 AM Re: friday at school [Re: kuurt]
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nasty dude.


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#179390 - 09/10/07 03:13 AM Re: friday at school [Re: testingWaters]
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nah dude, that not innocent.


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#179392 - 09/10/07 05:42 AM Re: friday at school [Re: Nyjah]
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That's fkd up!!!

You are very right (and a good person) to be freaked.

As an adult, I'd go freaking ballistic on him. As a teen student, I'd have the same reaction you did. People like that make me want to puke.

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#179394 - 09/10/07 07:41 AM Re: friday at school [Re: Still]
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i'd go to the priciple and tell him that your teacher made a comment about having sex with a third grader ,heh bet he dont tell that one again.

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#179396 - 09/10/07 07:56 AM Re: friday at school [Re: kuurt]
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Originally Posted By: kuurt

"what is a virgin?
...
...
...
a lucky 3rd grader."


I changed the joke. It's probably a lot less funny this way, but at least now it's true.

I need to get this straight. A high school teacher told this joke in class? This was totally inappropriate and uncalled for.

Yeah, I think I'm going to agree with Adam. I think you should start by talking to a counsellor (if one is available) to see if that counsellor can help you talk to the principal.

That, to me, is a pretty sick joke, and it's just wrong for a high school classrom.

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#179413 - 09/10/07 10:01 AM Re: friday at school [Re: BJK]
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As a person in a postition of trust, he made a huge mistake. He should be held accountable. I have worked in public education, and his comment is inappropriate - If you feel you can, i would let someone know as well. If you can't, then rest assured that you are NOT too sensative, you are right on target... the joke is sick.

Dan

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#179423 - 09/10/07 11:41 AM Re: friday at school [Re: dannym]
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Kurt,

I'm a teacher and I wouldn't make that joke to ANY students of any age, and in fact not to anyone at all. It's sick, cruel and insensitive. No wonder you were freaked! My first thought is what's this asshole doing in front of students in a school?

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#179461 - 09/10/07 03:44 PM Re: friday at school [Re: roadrunner]
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everyone in the class laughed, so that just shows that no one there would ever understand where im coming from

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#179463 - 09/10/07 03:45 PM Re: friday at school [Re: kuurt]
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If everyone laughed in the class, they're just really messed up to think something like that is funny. I'm sorry that this happened in your class. This is making me rethink going back to school.

I'm sorry bro.


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#179464 - 09/10/07 03:54 PM Re: friday at school [Re: Nyjah]
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I don't get the joke..........could someone help me on this?

Let's see, the 3rd grade kid is ugly, so he/she isn't having sex already like *normal* 3rd graders do?

That's some pretty twisted humor.


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#179472 - 09/10/07 04:48 PM Re: friday at school [Re: Nyjah]
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If people laughed...they are all bone-heads..though some may have laughed out of peer pressure.

I like the idea of bringing this to the school administrators (even if done anonymously in writing). This ought not go un-addressed.

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#179476 - 09/10/07 05:50 PM Re: friday at school [Re: Nyjah]
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Go straight to the principal. That joke is so far out of line. It makes me shudder.

I heard a joke years ago that was so bad - but I did not protest, "...just guys being guys at work" and to this day I am ashamed I did not say "You are one sick SOB!" and leave that lunch meeting.

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#179478 - 09/10/07 05:59 PM Re: friday at school [Re: Still]
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Originally Posted By: Robbie Brown
If people laughed...they are all bone-heads..though some may have laughed out of peer pressure.


And some may have laughed out of sheer embarassment, insecurity, or just being uncomfortable.

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#179495 - 09/10/07 07:44 PM Re: friday at school [Re: BJK]
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What the motherf**k.

You know, all this cavalier "ha-ha, let's talk about little kids having sex" crap just really pisses me off to no freaking end. How can someone with any sense at all think that was effing funny?

Bad word. Bad-word, bad-word.

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