The point of this entire thread:

REVOCABLE CONSENT AFTER THE ACT...

If you pick up a female/male in a club/bar that may have had a
few drinks and return to your/her/his place and have sex...if
this same female/male has regrets/remorse AFTER the act of
CONSENSUAL SEX earlier she/he will now be able to REVOKE
her/his CONSENT and claim RAPE....

When do we accept responsibility for OUR active participation
in these acts...our actions do have consequences good or bad..
we do participate to a certain degree...

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A Native American elder once described his own inner struggles in this manner: "Inside of me there are two dogs. One of the dogs is mean and evil. The other dog is good. The mean dog fights the good dog all the time." When asked which dog wins, he reflected for a moment, "The one I feed the most."