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#172101 - 08/09/07 09:21 AM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: Agape Girl]
thecoopstah Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/19/04
Posts: 589
Loc: massachusetts
Never in my life did i sleep without clothes(20yrs or so) because for whatever reason i felt more safe and comfortable.

However i am now in an awesome,safe and healthy relationship with a woman who understands me comepletely so therefore i now feel safe enough to sleep without clothes.

When we first met and we were "intimate" shortly thereafter i had to put my clothes back on because i felt vulnerable and exposed,whatever that was/is i'm not concerned with.

I can't really answer such a broad question in that ONLY YOU can make the decision to wear clothes or not to bed.When you feel safe you'll make the choice to do what is right for you and not before.So to answer your question no i now don't sleep in my clothes.


Coopstah

PS: it is however important to mention to you that it's not right or wrong to wear or not wear clothes only that when it feels safe for you then it's up to you at this point.

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#172221 - 08/09/07 09:37 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: Stefan012]
hideout Offline
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Registered: 08/09/07
Posts: 84
Loc: michigan
i still go to bed fully clothed, even though it has not happened for a few years, everytime i try to go to bed without all my clothes on i usually get scared
its embarrasing, but who cares, i have to deal with it and i just found this website today, and hopefully it helps


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#172226 - 08/09/07 09:54 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: hideout]
BJK Offline
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Registered: 08/02/07
Posts: 1526
Welcome, hideout.

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Revenge is nothing more than another way of perpetuating abuse.

What the world needs now
Is some new words of wisdom
Like la la la la la la la la la.
-David Lowery

Having a friend who will keep a secret for you is worthless compared to a friend who won't keep a secret from you.

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#172229 - 08/09/07 10:19 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: BJK]
WalkingSouth Offline
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Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16263
Hey Hideout \:\) Welcome. We're glad you're here.

John

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#172314 - 08/10/07 11:27 AM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: WalkingSouth]
cameron Offline
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Registered: 08/01/07
Posts: 37
i sleep in my clothes too
sometimes i sleep in my closet, in my clothes


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#172340 - 08/10/07 12:44 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: cameron]
hideout Offline
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Registered: 08/09/07
Posts: 84
Loc: michigan
never in my closet, sometimes on the floor though


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#172342 - 08/10/07 12:55 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: hideout]
Agape Girl Offline
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Registered: 07/25/07
Posts: 120
Loc: New Jersey, USA
Hideout;

Welcome!!!
I'm new here too, and the family of a soon to be self admitted Survivor. I've found a few moments of peace and calmness with all the people that live here. So, stay here with us, you'll find more and more support, to help you heal.

be well,

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AGAPE'
means selfless love of one person for another
without sexual implications
(especially love that is spiritual in nature)

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#172346 - 08/10/07 12:59 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: Agape Girl]
hideout Offline
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Registered: 08/09/07
Posts: 84
Loc: michigan
i hope so
im already a fuck up, always have been


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#172361 - 08/10/07 01:31 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: hideout]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
Hideout,

Thanks for your PM and welcome to Male Survivor. I'm really glad you found us, and I know you will get a lot of support and understanding here. You aren't a fuck-up, by the way, though we often think of ourselves that way. You are a guy who is trying to cope with some terrible things that were done to you. It's a brave thing you are doing here, and I hope you feel comfortable in our community here.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#172363 - 08/10/07 01:36 PM Re: Does anyone sleep in their clothes? [Re: roadrunner]
hideout Offline
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Registered: 08/09/07
Posts: 84
Loc: michigan
im not brave
cant even face myself


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