i'm new here today, trying to get acquainted. what you are feeling inside i can also understand. altho i consider myself "bi", i have been too messed up to have a relationship.
as brian said above, try to keep within your marriage. if you must act out, be careful. i am also + and anal is a good way to get it. i know how strong the longings are man, believe me. do wat you gotta do, but protect your loved ones as well as yourself. maybe find a SAFE "friend" that can lead you in and back? i am also on the hunt. be gentle with yourself.
3+7+11+13+19+25+39/9-4 yep, were all somewhere...