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#169881 - 07/30/07 03:28 PM Re: Monday [Re: roadrunner]
duncanUK Offline
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Registered: 12/24/06
Posts: 632
Jay,

I am with Larry on this. I have tried to "rescue" my sister who was sexually abused by our uncle. I t almost tore me apart to the point where i felt like telling people. i did not.

Duncan

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#169886 - 07/30/07 03:58 PM Re: Monday [Re: duncanUK]
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Thanks Duncan... and everyone, sorry for the fighting earlier.

J


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#169912 - 07/30/07 07:37 PM Re: Monday [Re: pain4ever]
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Registered: 07/01/07
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So Jay, with all this "mine is bigger than your's is" crap, let me ask you this; what did you do to NOT deserve this? I mean, everybody here lends a helping hand whenever they can. So why not you? What is it about you that DOESN'T deserve our help, our compassion, our empathy and our support???

I like you, buddy, and i've hardly even met you.. but we have serious shit in common. If you can help me, man, I'd be gratefull to accept your help. If I could possibly, in some small way help you out... well ,I'd be glad to do it, no questions asked.

Geeze, I never saw such a headstrong bunch of guys in my life! LOL Just take the advice for what it's worth; exactly what you paid for it...

Otherwise, you'll pay in a different fashion...

Just butting in, sorry, don't mind me...

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#169990 - 07/31/07 07:55 AM Re: Monday [Re: Jaysen]
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Jay,

Originally Posted By: Jaysen
Thanks Duncan... and everyone, sorry for the fighting earlier.


No apology is necessary bro. We all know how rough this stuff can be, and when a guy is in a bad spot that's the time he needs understanding and support the most.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#170001 - 07/31/07 08:45 AM Re: Monday [Re: roadrunner]
Jaysen Offline
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It's not that I don't think I deserve help, it's just that sometimes you get caught up in the past, in the memories, get stuck there and it's hard to get out. So yeah I guess I spent a good part of the day yesterday feeling like that 12 year old who was only good for one thing. I'm feeling a lot better today.
Thanks....
J


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#170026 - 07/31/07 10:47 AM Re: Monday [Re: Jaysen]
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Getting away from the mind f&*k is the hardest part!!

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Peace and Tranquility all depends on your frame of reference.

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#170035 - 07/31/07 11:28 AM Re: Monday [Re: pain4ever]
Jaysen Offline
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Yeah it is, I can take physical pain any day of the week but the psychological shit... well... glad I don't work in a high rise, I'd be diving off the roof!


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#170036 - 07/31/07 11:30 AM Re: Monday [Re: Jaysen]
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My old saying...this may be a little triggering!!!

F^&k me...abuse me...hit me...I can take it all but please stay out of my head. (Dont demean me)

I used to say that to perps....how sad.

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#170043 - 07/31/07 11:44 AM Re: Monday [Re: pain4ever]
Jaysen Offline
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Exactly!


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#170044 - 07/31/07 12:06 PM Re: Monday [Re: Jaysen]
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Registered: 04/05/01
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I actually seemed to be "okay" if they were just quiet. I preferred it that way....I used to keep ear plugs under my pillow.

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