So Jay, with all this "mine is bigger than your's is" crap, let me ask you this; what did you do to NOT deserve this? I mean, everybody here lends a helping hand whenever they can. So why not you? What is it about you that DOESN'T deserve our help, our compassion, our empathy and our support???
I like you, buddy, and i've hardly even met you.. but we have serious shit in common. If you can help me, man, I'd be gratefull to accept your help. If I could possibly, in some small way help you out... well ,I'd be glad to do it, no questions asked.
Geeze, I never saw such a headstrong bunch of guys in my life! LOL Just take the advice for what it's worth; exactly what you paid for it...
Otherwise, you'll pay in a different fashion...
Just butting in, sorry, don't mind me...
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