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#169532 - 07/28/07 06:48 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: Lazarus]
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Registered: 04/02/07
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Originally Posted By: Lazarus
Maybe the moment has passed

sure - that must be it.
Originally Posted By: Lazarus
I will cry for him, and for you. Fact is, I already am.

but you can stop now - the moment has passed

thanx for bein there.


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#169533 - 07/28/07 06:50 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: MusicMan]
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Originally Posted By: MusicMan
Do you suffer from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder)? I do and it is chronic :(. A full blown attack of PTSD always starts out with crying.

guess not - i don't have the crying

M


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#169563 - 07/28/07 09:15 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: MarkK]
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Mark - when I was 12, I vowed that I would never cry again because of something that someone else did. I kept that vow for over 3 decades, through the loss of my dog (the only being that never let me down once, although a few others have been close). The death of my parents, several favourite relatives, good friends in accidents, and so it goes on!

I broke down in December of 2003 (from 1969) and cried like a banshee! When you are ready, it will happen! It was a major release for me!

best wishes ...Rik

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#169571 - 07/28/07 09:51 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: RICK57]
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thanks. i cried at Mom's funeral ... like i said, for MOST things it seems i can cry...

M

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#169574 - 07/28/07 10:00 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: MarkK]
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It seems sometimes that it's easier to cry for others than for ourselves. If we cry for ourselves, it seems neverending....

Maxx

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#169575 - 07/28/07 10:03 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: Maxx]
MarkK Offline
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Originally Posted By: Maxx
If we cry for ourselves, it seems neverending....

i'll have to take your word for that, Maxx

M


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#169578 - 07/28/07 10:14 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: MarkK]
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i think that what I mean is that once we open those gates, there's no end; it's easier to cry for others. Sometimes its easier not to cry for ourselves at all. I couldn't cry for myself for a long time.

Maxx

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#169579 - 07/28/07 10:16 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: Maxx]
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Originally Posted By: Maxx
i think that what I mean is that once we open those gates, there's no end


oh. ok .. not a problem i have


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#169585 - 07/28/07 10:40 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: MarkK]
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Yeah, I've been there. It sounds like you don't think you're worth crying for ... you are. Your pain is as legitimate as anyone else's.

Maxx

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#169586 - 07/28/07 10:41 PM Re: rockbottom [Re: MusicMan]
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When You are at the bottom of a well there is no where to go but UP! This will pass

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