Edited.

Sorry I decided that this was too personal, and so I have deleted the post.

Briefly it was relating transgender identity to abuse.

Sandra

I think the thread was moved/removed. I saw it when I first logged on but I see now it's gone. Perhaps regret got hold of one of us, as it often does.

Here's hoping you get some very insightful responses-

Craig

Hi Sandra,

I have read through your post several times and I have to confess I have nothing especially wise to say. Your situation is just so complicated and I can appreciate how conflicted you must feel.

I hope you will continue to work with your T on these issues. It seems to me that there remains a lot to do before you will really be comfortable with any particular gender and sexual identity. And that's the key, isn't it? To be happy and content with yourself in your own skin.

Your post gives me some sense of the highly charged issues involved here, and I wish you all the best in resolving them.

Much love,
Larry