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#16694 - 12/17/01 02:58 PM Re: Advice Needed
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
I hope this Christmas season works out for you. It is too bad you have to face this type of position with your inlaws. I wish you the best with your family. Do something fun with your daughter.

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#16695 - 12/17/01 04:01 PM Re: Advice Needed
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Registered: 02/13/01
Posts: 37
Loc: Chicago, IL
Let her go, no need to fight over it and i understand exactly what you are feeling...however she should understand how much it hurts you. And I also think you should make the best of the time and spend it with your daughter


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#16696 - 12/18/01 09:28 AM Re: Advice Needed
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Just to let you know, I have talked to my wife about this upcoming event and how it really bothers me and that I can't see anyone wanting to spend time with a child abuser and not with your family. I asked her to not go and support me on this. I was shocked that she said that she would not go and that she is behind me 100%. She does want to see the rest of the clan and celebrate Christmas and I told her that I would run all over NY to do that with her so that she can see her Family, as long as he is not there.

On Saturday night, I am planning on taking her and my daughter out to a very nice restaurant and just having a great time.

Thank you all for you help.


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#16697 - 12/18/01 04:39 PM Re: Advice Needed
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Registered: 05/18/01
Posts: 510
Loc: Los Angeles, California
Awesome!!!!!! \:\)

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I asked him about this law he spoke of, he said,,, *watch* he then asked the others to share about their lives,,, the others talked of how things were for them, how things worked in their lives,,, and as they believed, it was so.

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#16698 - 12/18/01 04:49 PM Re: Advice Needed
getteddie Offline
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Registered: 07/19/01
Posts: 226
Loc: Cub Hill, Md
That's wonderfull...Happy Xmass to you and your family!!!! You have inspired me to try harder and try to enjoy the time that I'm "off work" with my family!!!!!

Eddie


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#16699 - 12/18/01 05:05 PM Re: Advice Needed
michael Joseph Offline
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Registered: 03/11/01
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That is just wonderful.

I love all her support.

Merry Christmas, have fun on Saturday night.

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