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#166468 - 07/13/07 08:02 AM
Last night
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So last night I went next door to my neighbors and had some drinks, a lot of drinks, with them. Normally this would have been the perfect opportunity for me to get into some trouble what with the amount of alcohol and the company... but I didn't, I stayed in control had a good time and left. It wasn't easy to do. I think this might be the first time ever in my life that I got drunk and didn't follow it up with sex. This might not sound like a big deal but it's a huge deal for me. I mean I actually had a good time without the abuse.
J
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#166470 - 07/13/07 08:08 AM
Re: Last night
[Re: Jaysen]
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THAT IS A HUGE DEAL...CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!
See, YOU control you, not your abuse, not your abusers!!!
I AM SO PROUD!!
Your Friend,
Brian
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#166477 - 07/13/07 08:42 AM
Re: Last night
[Re: MarkK]
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I've read through a few of your posts and it sounds like a big deal to me!
Great job!
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Guilt and shame have never done any of us any good at all.
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#166492 - 07/13/07 09:35 AM
Re: Last night
[Re: cbfull]
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#166495 - 07/13/07 09:44 AM
Re: Last night
[Re: Jaysen]
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Way to go Jaysen! Recovery is one step at a time - and this one is a BIG one for you! Congratulations!!
Brian
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#166497 - 07/13/07 09:46 AM
Re: Last night
[Re: Brian]
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Standing ovation for Jaysen!!!
(Standing and clapping)
Brian
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#166524 - 07/13/07 02:45 PM
Re: Last night
[Re: pain4ever]
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(still claping, and boy are my hands tired) Yeah, Jasen that really is a big deal. I used to assoiate all types of thing with sex. especially love. Now I know that I can be loved without having to have sex or 'paying for it(the attention)'.
WAY TO GO, man
Logan
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"Quite a thing to live in fear, this is what is means to be a slave"
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#166545 - 07/13/07 05:36 PM
Re: Last night
[Re: Logan]
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Hey Jay,
Well done. I can well imagine what a big moment this is for you. Congratulations! Jay rules!!!!!
Much cheering,
Larry
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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)
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#166612 - 07/14/07 01:47 AM
Re: Last night
[Re: roadrunner]
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hmmm,im the exact oposite,all drink no sex,i used to drink soo much,never had memories of it,like a black out,then get my second wind of drinking,most of my time when i was drinking,it wasn't about getting some woman drunk or me getting laid,it was about forgetting,did that for years.Thing was most women would get drunk on their own,and i wasn't even bothered with them.
Edited by skingraph (07/14/07 01:49 AM)
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