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#166468 - 07/13/07 09:02 AM Last night
Jaysen Offline
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Registered: 06/14/06
Posts: 680
So last night I went next door to my neighbors and had some drinks, a lot of drinks, with them. Normally this would have been the perfect opportunity for me to get into some trouble what with the amount of alcohol and the company... but I didn't, I stayed in control had a good time and left. It wasn't easy to do. I think this might be the first time ever in my life that I got drunk and didn't follow it up with sex. This might not sound like a big deal but it's a huge deal for me. I mean I actually had a good time without the abuse.

J


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#166470 - 07/13/07 09:08 AM Re: Last night [Re: Jaysen]
pain4ever Offline


Registered: 04/05/01
Posts: 1032
THAT IS A HUGE DEAL...CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!

See, YOU control you, not your abuse, not your abusers!!!

I AM SO PROUD!!

Your Friend,
Brian

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Peace and Tranquility all depends on your frame of reference.

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#166472 - 07/13/07 09:12 AM Re: Last night [Re: pain4ever]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2502
Loc: Denver, CO
WOOHOO! Way to go Jaysen!!
This is VERY HUGE. I am so jazzed for you.

Thank you for sharing your victory. I'll be grinning for hours!!!


M


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#166477 - 07/13/07 09:42 AM Re: Last night [Re: MarkK]
cbfull Offline
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Registered: 01/26/07
Posts: 386
Loc: Ohio
I've read through a few of your posts and it sounds like a big deal to me!

Great job!

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Guilt and shame have never done any of us any good at all.

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#166492 - 07/13/07 10:35 AM Re: Last night [Re: cbfull]
Jaysen Offline
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Posts: 680
Thanks, thanks...


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#166495 - 07/13/07 10:44 AM Re: Last night [Re: Jaysen]
Brian Offline
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Registered: 05/03/01
Posts: 1563
Loc: Upstate NY
Way to go Jaysen! Recovery is one step at a time - and this one is a BIG one for you! Congratulations!!

Brian

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#166497 - 07/13/07 10:46 AM Re: Last night [Re: Brian]
pain4ever Offline


Registered: 04/05/01
Posts: 1032
Standing ovation for Jaysen!!!

(Standing and clapping)

Brian

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#166524 - 07/13/07 03:45 PM Re: Last night [Re: pain4ever]
Logan Offline
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Registered: 04/05/03
Posts: 1205
Loc: NY
(still claping, and boy are my hands tired) Yeah, Jasen that really is a big deal. I used to assoiate all types of thing with sex. especially love. Now I know that I can be loved without having to have sex or 'paying for it(the attention)'.

WAY TO GO, man
Logan

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WOR Alumnus Hope Springs 2009
"Quite a thing to live in fear, this is what is means to be a slave"
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#166545 - 07/13/07 06:36 PM Re: Last night [Re: Logan]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
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Loc: Carlisle, PA
Hey Jay,

Well done. I can well imagine what a big moment this is for you. Congratulations! Jay rules!!!!!

Much cheering,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#166612 - 07/14/07 02:47 AM Re: Last night [Re: roadrunner]
skingraph Offline
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Registered: 03/24/07
Posts: 39
hmmm,im the exact oposite,all drink no sex,i used to drink soo much,never had memories of it,like a black out,then get my second wind of drinking,most of my time when i was drinking,it wasn't about getting some woman drunk or me getting laid,it was about forgetting,did that for years.Thing was most women would get drunk on their own,and i wasn't even bothered with them.



Edited by skingraph (07/14/07 02:49 AM)

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