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#162638 - 06/21/07 11:45 AM Re: new [Re: Hauser]
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Originally Posted By: Hauser
And your Dad has NO RIGHT to make that judgment for YOU.


AMEN HAUSER!!!!!!

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#162639 - 06/21/07 11:47 AM Re: new [Re: Hunter18]
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Well perhaps at some point in the future you'll be strong/angry enough to stick the gory details (the broad outlines can be just as sobering) in his face and that might help him to at least acknowledge that someone else has a different point of view about sexual abuse.

Shortly after I came to this site, I wrote a letter to my parents and I berated/chastised them for being neglectful and so absorbed with their own petty problems that they couldn't even tell that their son was being sexually abused throughout the course of a summer. I wrote it to both of them at once, no more secrets. Let me know if you would like to read it.


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#162641 - 06/21/07 11:49 AM Re: new [Re: Hunter18]
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Hi Hunter,

Awesome to have you here! Sorry about what happened to you, but I think you're doing a good thing when you find safe "peeps" to talk to about it. It'll help you a lot.

Safe Hugs,

John

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#162643 - 06/21/07 11:52 AM Re: new [Re: Hauser]
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i tried telling him some things before but he tells me to shut up about it, another time i tried and he told me to shut up but i went on anyways and he hit me, so now i don't say a word about it to him anymore i just stay out of his way. i do want to read what you wrote. thanks.

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#162650 - 06/21/07 12:32 PM Re: new [Re: Hunter18]
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#162652 - 06/21/07 12:43 PM Re: new [Re: Hauser]
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thanks. i read it and wow i wish i could say stuff like that to my dad. it helps, when i have something to say at home i'll think of this and it will help

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#162661 - 06/21/07 02:02 PM Re: new [Re: Hunter18]
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Hunter,

Just a late word of welcome to the site. You did "suck it up" bro; it takes real courage to come to a place like this and ask for the help you need. You'll find a lot of support and understanding here. Just take your time, okay? Find your own pace and make yourself your priority.

Much love,
Larry

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#162856 - 06/22/07 11:55 AM Re: new [Re: roadrunner]
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thanks

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#162860 - 06/22/07 12:07 PM Re: new [Re: Hunter18]
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Welcome, Hunter. You came to a good place. The guys here are safe, and although we all have some quirks, no real weirdos in the bunch. You are doing a wonderfully brave thing by being here. You can talk about anything that's on your mind, the guys here are the most understanding, non judemental group I've ever seen.

Again, welcome and I look forward to getting to know you better over time.

Dan

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#162861 - 06/22/07 12:08 PM Re: new [Re: dannym]
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thanks that is good to know because i have a lot on my mind

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