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#160979 - 06/10/07 12:24 PM male on male rape.. It happened to me
WesQ Offline
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Registered: 06/10/07
Posts: 31
Loc: Norcross, Georgia, USA
Hey guys

One reason I am here now is that I was sexually assulted and raped by another man whom I thought I trusted. He and I had gotten along well and had spent time together. But, one night, he took advantage of me sexually after "cookie" my drink at the club we were at that night.

I woke up in a location I had no clue where I was and he was gone. That was the last time I saw of him. Luckily, he didn't take any money from me or stole anything of mine. But, by the way I felt, he sexually raped me.

:-(

I hope no one has to go thru this.

Hugs
Wes

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#161083 - 06/11/07 08:25 AM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: WesQ]
cbfull Offline
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Registered: 01/26/07
Posts: 386
Loc: Ohio
Originally Posted By: WesQ
he took advantage of me sexually after "cookie" my drink at the club we were at that night.


First off, let me say welcome to the forum, and I am very sorry that some low-life has done this to you.

I'm pretty sure I can figure out what you mean by that, but I must say I don't understand it the way it is worded. Cookie your drink? Never heard that one before.

Craig

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#161176 - 06/11/07 06:41 PM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: cbfull]
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Wes,

I'm sorry this happened to you but I hope you will benefit from our site. I'm guessing that by "cookie" you mean he spiked your drink with something. What a shit.

Much love,
Larry

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#161179 - 06/11/07 06:59 PM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: cbfull]
WesQ Offline
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Registered: 06/10/07
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Loc: Norcross, Georgia, USA
Craig

Cooked drink meaning putting a roofie or a date rape drug into someone's drink when they weren't paying attention.

Hugs
Wes

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#161180 - 06/11/07 07:00 PM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: roadrunner]
WesQ Offline
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Registered: 06/10/07
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Loc: Norcross, Georgia, USA
Larry

yeah, hon, he did. He is the scum of the universe. I hope I never run into him again.

Hugs n tugs
Wes

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#161256 - 06/12/07 08:01 AM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: WesQ]
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Wes...Sorry that happenned to you. Samething happenned here...drugged and raped. You didnt just "feel" like it...you were raped and these preditors are the lowest pond scum of the universe.

I am glad you found us though...this site can help immensely.

Take Care..
Brian

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#161395 - 06/12/07 07:48 PM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: pain4ever]
WesQ Offline
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Registered: 06/10/07
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Loc: Norcross, Georgia, USA
Thanks Brian!

I look forward to chatting more with everyone soon.

Much love
Wes

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Make your own kind music
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#161478 - 06/13/07 01:36 PM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: WesQ]
FormerTexan Offline
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Registered: 09/12/04
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"he didn't take any money from me or stole anything of mine."

He may not have taken something property-wise, but he definitely stole from you!



Edited by FormerTexan (06/13/07 01:40 PM)
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#161538 - 06/14/07 01:35 AM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: FormerTexan]
David1010 Offline
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Registered: 06/07/04
Posts: 46
Loc: Philadelphia, PA
I'm not sure if I should welcome people since I visit this site sporadically, but I think the information and people you'll find here are very supportive and helpful.


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#166617 - 07/14/07 03:27 AM Re: male on male rape.. It happened to me [Re: David1010]
Nate Offline
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Registered: 04/30/07
Posts: 94
Loc: Philadelphia, PA
hey wes.

i'm sorry this happened to you.

just last month i was in a similar situation.

only due to my own stupidity - i got drunk b/c i ran into a guy who had raped me last year. i got pretty drunk and don't remember much -- i knew i got happy -- an aquantaince came over to say hi -- i passed out after throwing up and i woke up raped.

i'm sad to hear you had a similar experience -- nothing was stolen from me either other than my dignity -- i woke up shaking -- went and got tested -- i'm negative so far. i recommend testing as well.

again - sorry to hear -- feel free to pm me man.

- nate

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