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#159311 - 06/01/07 08:32 AM Personal tragedy
Whicker Offline
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Registered: 11/01/03
Posts: 117
Loc: Pastures of Oregon
Dear MaleSurvivor,

My SoulMate of these past 15 years died last night.
On top of the news that my ongoing 5 year struggle to obtain Social Security/S.S.I. has been denied, again, I don't know how to cope with this One-Two punch.
I'm looking at being forced to turn over our feline/turtles/miniature horse to the ASPCA, most likely for euthanasia, and becoming homeless by the end of this month (I have no real income of mine own, hence the importance of SS/SSI).

I believe in the power of prayer/directed thought, and would be extremely grateful for any support you can lend.

Bless You, and Safe Journey,

Whicker

_________________________
Esse Quam Videri
(To be, rather than to seem)

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#159313 - 06/01/07 08:38 AM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: Whicker]
EGL Offline
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Registered: 06/19/04
Posts: 7821
Hi Whicker,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your partner. I know it has to feel devastating and I hope you will feel some peace during all this. I'll be praying for you for sure during this time. Please let us know how things are going. This is a great place for emotional support for you right now, please let the guys here help.

_________________________
Eddie

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#159318 - 06/01/07 09:30 AM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: EGL]
markgreyblue Offline
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Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
((((whicker))))))

so sorry -

I will pray that a door will oopen -

I think last since it happened just last night -

don't think about all this right now -

take the weekend to mourn and somehow distract-

meditate and be calm with people who care and support you -

peace for now - till the shock of your mate's passing

gets behind a bit

so sorry!

_________________________
"...do not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous



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#159319 - 06/01/07 09:31 AM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: markgreyblue]
markgreyblue Offline
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Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
one door closes a nother will open -

just focus on this weekend -

for now- rest -



Edited by markgreyblue (06/01/07 09:31 AM)
_________________________
"...do not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous



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#159322 - 06/01/07 09:49 AM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: markgreyblue]
Grunty1967b Offline
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Registered: 07/28/05
Posts: 823
Loc: Australia
Whicker,

Prayers already sent up for you buddy. Iím believing youíll receive comfort during this time of loss for you, a breakthrough in receiving social welfare benefits, the ability to keep your animal companions and a safe and comfortable home for you to live in (whether thatís staying where you are or in having another opportunity arise for you).

Keep well and look after yourself the best you can. Youíre a person of value and importance and you deserve nothing less.


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#159341 - 06/01/07 11:20 AM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: Whicker]
stride Offline
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Registered: 03/07/03
Posts: 202
Loc: B.C. Canada
(((((Whicker)))))

Whicker, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you at this time. Please know that you and your animal friends are in my thoughts and prayers for love, comfort, healing, kindness, adequate income for shelter and food, and the ability to remain together, just for starters.

Somehow words seem inadequate here, but please know that I am directing much love and positive, healing thoughts your way.

Hugs,

Stride

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In the right formation,
the lifting power of many wings can
achieve twice the distance of any bird flying alone.

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#159342 - 06/01/07 11:43 AM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: stride]
mack Offline
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Registered: 03/07/07
Posts: 101
Loc: new mexico
Whicker,
I mourn with you. I will dedicate my prayers and meditation tonight to you and your animal friends.
I know its hard right now, but remember; there are struggles we must deal with and when we conquer these, we become stronger.
Positive energy and good thoughts go out to you right now. If you feel one second of peace in the next few days, know that its due to all the thoughts and prayers sent your way.
You will get past this. You are stronger than you think and that strength will amaze you.

_________________________
mack

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#159400 - 06/01/07 09:22 PM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: mack]
SAR Offline
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Registered: 12/07/03
Posts: 3310
Loc: USA
My thoughts are with you here too Whicker. I am glad you are able to come here and ask for support.


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#159682 - 06/03/07 06:37 PM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: Whicker]
Whicker Offline
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Registered: 11/01/03
Posts: 117
Loc: Pastures of Oregon
Thank You all for your support/condolences.

Today was her Birthday.

I'm sitting here in my Den, drinking. I can't bear to be in the house proper, where I see so much of her things there, but know she will never again come home.

I feel so alone, I just needed to 'talk' to someone.

Whicker

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Esse Quam Videri
(To be, rather than to seem)

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#159709 - 06/03/07 09:20 PM Re: Personal tragedy [Re: Whicker]
want2help Offline
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Registered: 03/09/07
Posts: 25
Loc: WV
I can only imagine how much pain and loss you feel. May knowing that others are thinking and praying for you offer some level of comfort. I agree with markgreyblue, take time to grieve and don't worry about the other challenges right now. Know that God has a plan and even if we do not know what it is, He does and we must put our faith in Him. The unknown is frightening but I hope you can feel some peace in the prayers that have gone up for you.


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