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#159368 - 06/01/07 04:02 PM Mom pimps 12 year old son
onlyakid Offline
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Registered: 03/31/04
Posts: 1552
Loc: New Jersey
York-area (PA) woman charged with raping boy, 12
(Full story at http://www.yorkdispatch.com/local/ci_6037755 )

A 24-year-old York-area woman is charged in Lancaster County with having a sexual relationship with a 12-year-old boy that was arranged by the boy's mother. Police say Ashley Laurie Banks paid the boy's mother in exchange for sex with the boy on a nightly basis at a home in Columbia, Lancaster County, between August 2005 and December 2005, according to an affidavit of probable cause....

The relationship came to light after the boy told a Lancaster County Children and Youth Services worker in September that he was being sexually assaulted, according to the documents.

He told the CYS worker that he was being "prostituted" by his mother, the documents state. At the time of the relationship, he was 12 and Banks was 22 years old, the documents state.


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#160113 - 06/05/07 09:39 PM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: onlyakid]
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
I know we aren't supposed to compare, but it seems to me that there's something especially vile and evil about a person who would betray his or her own flesh and blood. My heart absolutely aches for my brothers here who were abused or otherwise betrayed by their parents or siblings. I just don't know how I could have survived that.

Much love,
Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
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#160235 - 06/06/07 11:10 AM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: roadrunner]
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Registered: 02/06/07
Posts: 129
Loc: Atlanta, GA , US
Sick bitch!!!!

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#160577 - 06/08/07 02:45 AM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: dean1320]
Chain Breaker Offline
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Registered: 04/21/07
Posts: 376
Loc: Michigan
AAAAARRRRGH!!!!!!!!

Keep me away from her!!

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#160641 - 06/08/07 10:28 AM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: Chain Breaker]
AJC Offline
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Registered: 04/01/07
Posts: 108
Loc: Illinois, USA
I sometimes find myself comparing and feeling stupid that I am so messed up by what happened to me compared to the more traumatic, horrific things that happened to others.

I know I shouldn't, but I do.

-Andrew


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#160656 - 06/08/07 12:12 PM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: AJC]
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Registered: 04/05/01
Posts: 1032
Any abuse...no matter if it was once..or a thousand times does horrific damage...never compare!

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#160686 - 06/08/07 02:13 PM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: pain4ever]
FormerTexan Offline
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Registered: 09/12/04
Posts: 11025
Loc: Denver, CO
Andrew,

Your pain is just as valid as anyone else's. Everyone thinks differently about things and see them different from others. My abuse seems like a walk in the park compared to others, yet I wouldn't wish on anyone what I dealt with. Invalidating your pain or past through comparing can hinder you from moving forward with healing.

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#160762 - 06/08/07 09:00 PM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son *UPDATE* [Re: onlyakid]
onlyakid Offline
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Loc: New Jersey
http://www.ydr.com/newsfull/ci_6046839

An update: Boy's mother has been charged with criminal conspiracy to rape a child and endangering the welfare of a child. Also new details as to the mother's involvement

“The mom knew about it ... allowed it go on,” Detective Bell said. “A month or so later ... she extorted the woman (Banks), saying, 'I'll go to authorities if you don't supply me with cocaine.'”

Also the abuse didn't end until the boy moved to another part of the state to live with his father.

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#161251 - 06/12/07 07:53 AM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: AJC]
ecb Offline
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Registered: 02/04/03
Posts: 205
Originally Posted By: AJC
I sometimes find myself comparing and feeling stupid that I am so messed up by what happened to me compared to the more traumatic, horrific things that happened to others.

I know I shouldn't, but I do.

-Andrew


Yea I do this too.


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#161608 - 06/14/07 05:14 PM Re: Mom pimps 12 year old son [Re: ecb]
philobat Offline
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Registered: 01/31/07
Posts: 293
Loc: California
To some degree I think most of us do the comparison thing. I have and felt bad about it. Now, I am just getting used to all of things we do and not beating myself up about it anymore.


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