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#15862 - 05/08/03 05:26 PM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
Wuamei Offline
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Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
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Victor
Sometimes it feels like we have big sign above us saying "dump here" and all the crap in the world falls upon us.
Yeah, like the world's a toilet & I'm getting flushed!

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My bad time was crashing my wifes new Toyota Gti in a bad period like yours. ( the insurance on that is horrendous :rolleyes: - and I made it even worse )
Oh well at least all I totalled was my wifes old Nissan Altima... :rolleyes:

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But we've learnt new ways to deal with crap now, and I bet you'll cope with it all.
Yeah, I think I've actually been thru worse stuff
than this. And without the knowledge, strength, support & tools I have now.

Right now I just feel so damned tired & numb...


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But it still ain't fun is it ?

Dave
No it's not bro.

But I will survive & I won't back down.

I know too damned well where that path leads...

Dave, thanks my friend.

Victor

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#15863 - 05/08/03 10:05 PM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
My brother Victor

Take a deep breath, count to ten, and think of all the good things in your life right now. You are healing and will never go back from whence you came. (Hey not bad for a guy who cant write englisn)

You got a really great wife and two loving daughters and you are still teaching water aerobics. And that helps you too.

You are a moderator of this site and always have very incitful things to talk about and you are ever there for those in trouble. There are so many here, myself included, who you have touched and helped. So you have a whole lot of wolf brohers who would march to Hell to help you and keep you strong.

You have set a standard to which me all subscibe.

You keep this site safe for us.

You keep your wife and daughters safe

Yes a lot has piled up right now. You will get your accreditation as a water aerobic instructor.

Nobody was killed or maimed in any of the accidents.

Your wife did not eat the tooth.

You have a terrific sense of humour


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Some more stuff out of my painful past coming out that Iím trying to deal with
Remeber those that do not remember the past are doomed to repeat it. In a way it is a blessing cause now you can deal with it in your own good time.

The past cannot hurt you know unless you let it. So stuff has come out and you deal with it.

If you need help you got a shitload of brothers here to give you support. Just ask any of them.

You are truly the Wolf Pack Leader.

Just trying to give you another slant on your life. Hope it helps.

Your wolf brother mike

aaaaaaawwwwwwwhhooookkkkkkkkkkkkeeeeeeewwwwooooo
New Howl for the boss wolf

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#15864 - 05/08/03 11:49 PM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
Wuamei Offline
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Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
Mike:

You've made me almost speechless--for once!

Or was that your plan?

You tryin to make a grown wolf cry?

Thanks Mike. It does help, my wolf brother.

Like the new howl.

Victor

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#15865 - 05/09/03 12:49 AM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
Les_Angry Offline
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Registered: 10/06/02
Posts: 195
Hey Victor,

Sorry to hear life is testing your limits. I think you are in a great place if you can laugh though. When things used to get hairy at work. One of the guys used to put on a paper cape he made out of a big peice of paper and fly across the room on a chair with the back taken off like superman.

Some times you just have to put on the straight jacket and laugh, this is the sound effect I used to play on my computer while he flew across the room on the chair:

its on this web page:

http://members.tripod.com/makko719/movie_sounds.htm

play this file:

cape fear.wav

repeat as necessary

it always cheered us up

Peace
MO Healing


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#15866 - 05/09/03 06:46 AM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
guy43 Offline
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Registered: 11/17/02
Posts: 450
Loc: Minnesota
Victories happen again and again.

Just remember, when things seems to be at their absolute (I'd have one but I don't drink) worse, it'll get even worsererer.

yesterday when I was on my way to work, i stopped for coffee at the local gas/dunkin dounuts and in a fit of extreme smartness, locked my keys in my car. i asked the women behind (speaking of big behinds) if i could borrow one of their cars to go get my spare set o brains. one of them did and she only knows me by my face and super size order of caffeine.

kindness and trust abounds when one looks and asks for it.

ask for help victor and it will come to you.

before i had left that fine drizzly morning, i stopped outside my house and stood there. i just stood there and looked up and down and slowly turned a full circle thinking... what can i notice that i haven't seen before... what can i see that is beautiful that i haven't bothered to appreciate... sometimes just the act of breathing can be wonderful.

jer

mike and everyone else... some excellent words you've shared.


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#15867 - 05/09/03 10:29 AM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
Wuamei Offline
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Registered: 08/19/02
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Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
Mo:

Thanks for your concern and for the cool sound bite!



"They're coming to take me away ho ho he he ha ha to the funny farm..."



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Victories happen again and again.

Just remember, when things seems to be at their absolute (I'd have one but I don't drink) worse, it'll get even worsererer.
Hey Jer thanks for the words of encouragement--I think?

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kindness and trust abounds when one looks and asks for it.

ask for help victor and it will come to you.
Thanks for sharing the cool story Jer. It may come in handy sometime. Can't tell ya how many times I've locked my keys in my car!

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before i had left that fine drizzly morning, i stopped outside my house and stood there. i just stood there and looked up and down and slowly turned a full circle thinking... what can i notice that i haven't seen before... what can i see that is beautiful that i haven't bothered to appreciate...
Thanks Jer I appreciate you sharing that. \:\)

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sometimes just the act of breathing can be wonderful.
My massage T was just telling me that the other day.

I have to agree...

...I've found it kinda hard to live without myself!



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mike and everyone else... some excellent words you've shared.
Ditto! Thanks men!

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#15868 - 05/09/03 11:46 AM Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop…
MrDon Offline
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Registered: 01/08/01
Posts: 957
Loc: Deltona, FL
Victor,
I saw this yesterday and wasn't able to respond... but. hey man you're doing a lot more than you realize. So make sure you don't take too many withdrawals on yourself and put a few credits in there.... *smile*

But I like what you and your wife did when you just laughed because that was probably the best thing you could have done...

And I want you to know, you ain't walking these paths alone!

Don

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