I'm glad you found this site. I have been here for a few months now and you wouldn't believe how its helped. My therapist is thrilled.
Members pay dues and have access to members only areas. Some of us aren't necessarily 'new' here anymore, but have yet to become full fledged members. Either way, this is a great group of men, and women, who are very supportive. I have found that there is nothing you say here that will shock anyone. We've heard it all.
When you're ready, just let it flow.