Please refer that PM to our mod team. You need to be able to participate here freely without blocking out a part of the input you can get.
You are right. The person who wrote to you was probably trying to help, and perhaps you have misunderstood what he has said or the background to it. But let the mods speak to him about this. This is part of their job and this kind of dialogue goes on all the time. We are all hurting people in one way or another, and sometimes a private word with a moderator is a good idea to get things back on track.
Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)