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#149005 - 04/05/07 06:33 AM Angel signs
VN Offline
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Registered: 06/03/05
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I just make this, page. It is of something I seen the other day. I think, perhaps, my dealings of God can become better, if he allow for my child to continue to give to me such 'signs' of her being ok.

http://olesya-novikova.virtual-memorials.com/main.php?action=view&mem_id=6946&page_no=3

My name is Vitaliy. My daughter was Olesya, Olya. She lived 22 months, and died in her sleep. I never loved before her, and when she died, she took part of my heart with her. But. If I had not ever been abused, I never would have been to part in my life that I would have her at all. She is proof to me that good can come even from the most bad ever. No, those people, abusers, I do not think are in general good. But she was nothing at all bad.

VN


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#149009 - 04/05/07 08:04 AM Re: Angel signs [Re: VN]
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Registered: 03/31/07
Posts: 635
Loc: USA
Vitaliy,
I am so sad for your losses. Your abuse and your daughter! I know you are correct when you said that there CAN be good that comes from the bad of our boyhood sexual abuse. I too have expereinced some of these. I have the most precious wife in the world, who would kill for me, and stuck with this mess for 23 years. I have two beautiful, "normal" sons that God has blessed me with. And I am now in a church of the most authentic real people I have ever known.
You hang in there and keep believing!!! God has a plan for each of us, be willing to accept it.
Love,
Buzz


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#149151 - 04/05/07 07:46 PM Re: Angel signs [Re: buzz_key]
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Visha,

Thanks once again for sharing this with us. You say it so well and you bless us more than you may know with your courage and determination, not to mention the love you carry for Olesya.

Lots of love,

John

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“Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy ____…! What a ride!’” ~Hunter S. Thompson

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#149987 - 04/10/07 05:30 AM Re: Angel signs [Re: WalkingSouth]
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I think it definitely look like an angel in the sky to me. Thank you to put it here.

Andrei


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#150013 - 04/10/07 08:45 AM Re: Angel signs [Re: ak]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
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Loc: Carlisle, PA
Visha,

A father's love for his little girl is forever.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#150811 - 04/14/07 04:43 PM Re: Angel signs [Re: roadrunner]
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Visha, she asks you not to cry, she wants you to be happy.
You geve her life, and she enjoyed what she had, and God
has taken good care of her for sure.

One day you will be re-united with her, and she will ask her Daddy, where have you been?
You will say that you have wished always to know she is safe.

She is safe, knowing that her Daddie will one day meet her,

ste


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#155440 - 05/10/07 08:46 AM Re: Angel signs [Re: reality2k4]
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Newest 'sign'

I am becoming to believe in these. Maybe it is because I want to. Maybe it is because I need to. And maybe it is because I fear to not feel her with me in some way. But it is helping me to heal of her loss, and that is making me stronger to heal of the rest as well.

VN


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#155458 - 05/10/07 10:30 AM Re: Angel signs [Re: VN]
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Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
Visha,

A butterfly is a symbol for reincarnation - did you know this?

\:\)

how nice - that you have this. !

Mark

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"...do not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous



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#157128 - 05/20/07 09:34 AM Re: Angel signs [Re: markgreyblue]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
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Loc: Carlisle, PA
Visha,

I am so glad you feel you are healing. Your little girl would want for her Daddy to be at peace and to live a life of joy and fulfillment. There is something very special about the relationship between a father and his little girl, and you will always have that.

Much love,
Larry

_________________________
Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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