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#147074 - 03/26/07 08:52 AM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: reality2k4]
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rob last night you started taking your life back!good job!

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#147079 - 03/26/07 10:25 AM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: shadowkid]
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Rob, I am mighty happy for you!

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#147091 - 03/26/07 12:20 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: reality2k4]
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Registered: 08/29/06
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Robbie,

I am so glad for you....ditto what reality24 said. You're no longer the scared kid, but a powerful ( and compassionate and sensative) adult who won't be bullied, but stood up for himself and the way you deserve (d) to be treated as a son and human being. Congratulations!!!!

Frank


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#147098 - 03/26/07 01:30 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: Halibut]
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WOW!!! That is truly awesome, I can only imagine how scared you must have been, BUT YOU DID IT!!! Keep on healing, Robbie!!!

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#147099 - 03/26/07 01:50 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: TNuss]
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Robbie,

Good job. I would take some time to evaluate his role as grandparent to your kids though. Although, he may or may not have changed, I feel it is in the best interest to err on the side of caution when it comes to this and any involvement with your kids. My opinion. I am proud of you. That's a big deal to do. Keep up the fight.

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#147104 - 03/26/07 03:12 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: dean1320]
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Robbie,

Congratulations!! This is great news! We are all so proud of you!

Brian

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#147106 - 03/26/07 04:20 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: Brian]
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Its funny..I have been hit with a flood of emotions today...including NO emotions...AGAIN!!! I have felt SO un-emotional for much of the day that is rather disturbing.

I know...ROB not CRYING ??!!! Hell, someone here stubs their toe and I cry over it. This reaction was fully unexpected.

Thank you all for the support on this. I felt the presence and suport of about 22 of you during the meeting...(including a little Shadow in the corner, at the-ready behind my guitar)

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#147111 - 03/26/07 04:42 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: Still]
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Sounds like the space shuttle coming into land.
The crew freakin out, if they are going to land
safely or just another crash.

You have just dumped out a load of garbage, no wonder
you have no emotions to tie it into.
Dont blame yourself for not telling him earlier..

Always remember, it was NOT your fault!

The future will tell if you can ever be friends as father and son, but I hope it can work out well.

I hope it does,

ste


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#147112 - 03/26/07 04:51 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: Still]
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Rob,

I also felt let down & disappointed (after the initial high) after my confrontation in 2001. Try not to be discouraged as it could take quite a while to really process it all. Although I'm sure things were happening on the inside, I didn't really see any changes in myself for about 18 months or so. I know it's very difficult to do, but "try" to be patient.

Brian

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#147156 - 03/26/07 10:21 PM Re: Confrontation OVER! [Re: reality2k4]
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Registered: 01/10/07
Posts: 11
Well done Robby! You have a taken a huge leap toward recovery in confronting him. Your inner strength and courage after taking that intial step will only grow from here on.


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