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#167970 - 07/20/07 02:13 PM Re: moving around [Re: Stefan012]
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Registered: 12/18/06
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Loc: The Netherlands
Moving again end next week.

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#168009 - 07/20/07 07:50 PM Re: moving around [Re: Stefan012]
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Stefan,

Damn! I can't believe they keep doing this to you. I just can't imagine how this can be in your best interest. But hang in there and in October you will be hopefully be heading into something more stable.

Much love,
Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
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#168012 - 07/20/07 08:22 PM Re: moving around [Re: roadrunner]
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It's like you're this pion they move around.
I understand why they do it, but it's just a bit ... I don't know. I don't like getting used to new house, new people, etc every 5 weeks. But feeling bit down lately anyway. So maybe that's got to do some with how i'm feeling about it.

Stefan

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#168094 - 07/21/07 05:53 AM Re: moving around [Re: Stefan012]
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Stefan,

Originally Posted By: Stefan012
It's like you're this pion they move around.


That's exactly it. Whatever their reasons for moving you around like this, the message to you - and you are supposed to be the one who matters here - is that you are some kind of nuisance that needs to be shared out. They will of course say this isn't what they mean, but there we are all the same. That has to be how it feels.

What else are you feeling down about? Can you talk about it?

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#168229 - 07/21/07 05:43 PM Re: moving around [Re: roadrunner]
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I'm sorry this keeps happening... Fosterfamilies really aren't much fun esp if they keep moving you around to different ones every so many weeks. And esp what happened to you the first time you were in fostercare..
I guess we were lucky to have met the wonderfull people we are staying with now, who adopted us. Of course we were much younger.
I hope that in october when you turn 18 you can quickly find a studentroom and put a stop to all the moving!

Xavier

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#168440 - 07/22/07 05:28 PM Re: moving around [Re: Xavier91]
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Thanks guys \:\)

Larry, can't really say why I'm feeling sorta down... Not like I could pick some things to blame it on. I don't really know..
More an overall kind of feeling like you know, everything becomes a bit dull, going out with friends is not as relaxing and just a nice evening of talking and joking anymore, nothing interests me much... I don't know how to explain.
It's like I get out of bed in the morning, eat breakfast, go to a friend or watch some tv, or go to work, etc, and then its evening again and i go to bed or I don't cause i dont want to face the nightmares i know i will get.
It's better then the anxiety all the time maybe? I dont know. Dont know anything i suppose. But now i'm starting to whine so i'll shut up \:\)

Stefan

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You let them out and miss them while they're gone
But there's memories down here and they will always live down here
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#168450 - 07/22/07 06:26 PM Re: moving around [Re: Stefan012]
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no whineing-[Stefan--------------------hope things get better for you-----------------------------------------------steve


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#168623 - 07/23/07 07:13 PM Re: moving around [Re: sabata]
Stefan012 Offline
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thanks. just feels like i do whenever i talk about this stuff you know? Can't shake that

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You let them out and miss them while they're gone
But there's memories down here and they will always live down here
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#168627 - 07/23/07 07:28 PM Re: moving around [Re: Stefan012]
Stefan012 Offline
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I suppose seeing one of my perps today and freaking out terribly at it doesnt help either..
I know it happens sometimes, that i will see one of em, cause utrecht, esp the city centre isnt that big but... I freak out every time anyway.

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You lost the things that you thought you would never miss.
You let them out and miss them while they're gone
But there's memories down here and they will always live down here
No they can't take them away, so they won't

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#168629 - 07/23/07 07:35 PM Re: moving around [Re: Stefan012]
Lazarus Offline
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Registered: 07/01/07
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Stephan.... if you ever see im in chat, please PM me... I have something to tell you.

Lazarus

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