pietie,
Once again, I am bowled over! This is an awesome poem.
I believe that learning to see yourself as lovable starts with treating yourself as though you were. Some say "fake it until you make it." That's the right idea, but it's not fake at all. Good self-care teaches us that we are worthwhile.
Thanks again for sharing.
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My name is Joe. I am a survivor and a good man. You can count on me.
CB
"[Insert your name here], I am [Chain Breaker]. Do you see that I am your friend? Can you see that you will always be my friend?"
--Wind In His Hair, Dances With Wolves