Matt & Marc & Ken shared some solid truth, made vital points, & offered good explanation of how this site works for everybody & why your post in particular was moved. I affirm it all & want to say to you personally:
Please don't take this personally. (BTW you may recall I did respond to your post in question.)
Believe me you are not the only person here to have had a post moved, to At Risk or elsewhere;
I've had a couple moved myself.
In fact there have been a couple of people who have come here who were becuz of their situations permitted to use only At Risk. That's one reason it was formed.
But not the only one. Actually, many people wanted
& are very grateful for this forum, even using it with some regularity. I'm one of them; if memory serves me correctly (that's always a coin toss!) I was the first to post in At Risk, back when it was still being fine tuned.
On the one hand, please don't think you're being accused of being a perp. We generally don't even have to accuse perps, we just let them know they're not welcome here, except to heal & in At Risk, and send them on their way. An extremely small minority of those who use At Risk have ever perpetrated sexual offenses, certainly in any legal sense, much less are any currently perpetrating.
On the other hand, please try to understand & appreciate how careful we have to be & are about making sure perps don't do anything here to hurt any of this wolf pack.
We must be very careful to guard what is posted while also guarding peoples' freedom to post in ways that will be helpful to them, and hopefully to others.
Were we not this careful many people would leave this site, many of them deeply hurt by the predators who do prowl this site trying to kick people who are already down. We make sure they get their feet nipped & get snarled off this site!
We have in part learned this the hard way, even in the last year or so. That's why we have our guidelines; please read or re-read them.
It wouldn't hurt any of us to do that once in a while, actually!
Frank please don't consider me unsympathetic. As I posted to you before, I unfortunately relate to your story in a whole lot of ways.
I've also occasionally posted in ways that weren't
ideal & moved or edited or even deleted posts, sometimes by my own choice & hand.
Having said all that, feel free to vent & get things off your chest. It's part of what we do here. They don't call me Victor Vesuvius the Venting Volcano for nothing!
OK I just made that up!
But I have been known to vent here maybe once or twice right guys?