do any of you have trouble with innappropriate or unhealthy sexual relationships, or do you have one you can't or don't want to get out of? how do you deal with it?

this would cover "normal" relationships with unhealthy themes down to relationships based purely on problems or with people you are not supposed to have a relationship with. i was just wondering here how people dealt with it because i have one its not an option to ditch (although i wouldnt even call it a relationship anymore if you never see the person.)

Yes I sure do have issues with innappropriate and unhealthy relationships. I don't have any good advice for you... I'm trying to work it out myself. But you're not alone.
J

Sometimes it is called being a doormat.
We feel we are only to be used by others or we are so used to feeling so poorly about ourselves, we just hang on because in a sick way, we feel comfortable. Some are so used to chaos, normalcy scares them, so they go back to what they are familiar with, afraid to let go. So I guess it's all fear based. There's stuff in some of the 'self-help' group and 12 Step groups since this is not rare. Go looking buddy and tell yourself you are worth more. Boost the old self-image and you're on your way.

froggy12

PS - I was in a situation like that for 10 years, so I know the routine. We bury the feelins with booze and drugs and are part of the living dead.

froggy12