I'm sorry, Jake.
I wish I could say more, or give you some magic that will make it better, but I can't. It sucks. It will ALWAYS suck.
Be sure to take care of yourself as well as him. You will do nobody any good if you collapsed.
Both of you are in my prayers.
Peace and love. You need anything, you let me know.
There are reasons I'm taking medication. They're called "other people." - Me, displaying my anti-social tendancies