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#126441 - 06/01/06 08:00 PM arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	i talk to my father he has very deep insights - he is great at the hindsight 20 20 judgement - but not great at support - he is great at turning it around making you feel as though - it's impossible to meet his emotoinal expectation and that everyone lives at his level - and i am hopelessly blind - no wonder life - was dissaociation and a therapist .... _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126442 - 06/01/06 08:03 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	and it feels as though he is still the kid - '...what about me' - and i am the nipple or the giver to his child the conversation today resoanates with a tenuous about everthing i do -feeling - and very low sights for my abilities - though he loves me m _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126443 - 06/01/06 08:08 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	our desire in relationships - is distinctly at odds - i particularly hate those weepy pity moments that are followed up with can i help you with anything - it's like theatre at this point a tribute to his... blabla mask for what he wants! _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126444 - 06/01/06 08:11 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	it's almost like there's a director - key in "violins" key in tears and... rol em! ok scarlett go! he steps up " ....as God as my witness I will never go hungry again!" lol is it Dad , Vivian Lee or a Greek Anne Bancroft! ?? ehhe that's unfair I admit - but uck - just a bit yiccch with it all ok mary whatever - mgb _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126445 - 06/01/06 08:11 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	on to better 'thangs' - ! _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126446 - 06/01/06 08:30 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	i think the absurdity of life chuckle about 'oh he means well' - ugg ...lol yeah - it's just so bizarre that whole dynamic - it's shit - funny as hell in an fucked up life this is it - i am just gonna laugh - it's a bit like postcards from the edge... eh? laters and hugs! :)mgboy _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126447 - 06/02/06 12:53 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
Ken Singer, LCSW Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 08/24/00 Posts: 5725 Loc: Lambertville, NJ USA	He probably doesn't have the sense of humor to appreciate it. K
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#126448 - 06/02/06 03:24 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
roadrunner Administrator Emeritus MaleSurvivor Registered: 05/02/05 Posts: 22045 Loc: Carlisle, PA	Mark, It sounds to me like he needs to be told you're not prepared to nurse his indifference and judgments. Much love, Larry _________________________ Nobody living can ever stop me As I go walking my freedom highway. Nobody living can make me turn back: This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)
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#126449 - 06/02/06 04:15 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
markgreyblue Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 12/19/03 Posts: 5400 Loc: Pasadena, CA	he had the nerve to say yesterday - "people" feel like you sit in judgement of them - and that's why ... he almost said - to go on ... he is a lunatic - _________________________ "...do not look outside yourself for the leader." -wisdom of the hopi elders "...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous
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#126450 - 06/02/06 04:20 PM Re: arm chair pyschiatry and yellin
roadrunner Administrator Emeritus MaleSurvivor Registered: 05/02/05 Posts: 22045 Loc: Carlisle, PA	Mark, Is it possible for you to "disconnect" from what he says? It doesn't sound like he will ever change, and meanwhile you need to find a way to relate to him that doesn't keep devalidating and disempowering you. Either that or...just don't see him any longer? Are there other choices? Apart from the present situation where you are being battered all the time? Much love, Larry _________________________ Nobody living can ever stop me As I go walking my freedom highway. Nobody living can make me turn back: This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)
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