Jake was a good kid. It is THE saddest story I have ever heard in my life. He stood as a testiment to a mother's inhumanity to her son, and yet he became a better person and strove to have a better life. What Jake went through made my life look like a walk in the park. But in chat he encouraged me.
The easiest way to find any member is to click "Directory" just under the "New Topic" and "Post Reply" buttons at the top of this page. Then search for Jake. You can read his story here
However, don't let yourself compare your life to anyone else's. One act of SA is too many. Jake told me that, too.