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#123734 - 03/13/05 08:25 PM Re: Should I report obscene phone call from kid?
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#123735 - 03/13/05 08:41 PM Re: Should I report obscene phone call from kid?
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Kolisha,

I wish it was about stimulating violence. No one, NO ONE, has the right to invade another person's space, violate them, or threaten them harm.

I think what makes me angry all the more is that "Junior" there is probably doing it less from a sense of true anger but because he's getting a cheapjack thrill from it. What fun these idiots have, cranking people in such a vicious way and not having the courage to face the damage it causes.

I guess for me it's a matter of keeping this junior-league creep from developing into a physically-active perp. Little cretins can grow up to be big cretins if left unchallenged.

That, and it's someone I care about. I come from the old school. Screw with me all you want, but best not screw with my friends.

Grr indeed!

Sorry to rant on like this, but please remember I care very much about YOU and want you to be safe.

Peace and love,

Scot

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#123736 - 03/14/05 12:13 AM Re: Should I report obscene phone call from kid?
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I agree with Howard. You can lean on us if you're worried.

And I am so glad you are complaining about that officer. Maybe *she* is one example of what could happen to those kids who go unchallenged.


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#123737 - 03/14/05 12:30 AM Re: Should I report obscene phone call from kid?
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If I let this kid go, he will probably just do something worse. If he eventually goes to detention, he will just end up being a more efficient criminal.
That's probably the bottom line, if he's left alone he'll get worse.
If he gets his butt hauled before the courts he'll 'maybe' learn something.
And if it's a first offence 'maybe' he'll recieve help rather than detention.

I wouldn't hesitate to reprort him and follow it through, but I'm not you.

Dave

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#123738 - 03/14/05 02:23 AM Re: Should I report obscene phone call from kid?
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Thanks everyone! I did report the little creep - felt a lot more secure having two uniformed policemen listening with me to the disgraceful tape.

I know that I would never forgive myself if I'd let this go - I have a feeling he was trying to threaten a specific person & got confused with the wrong phone number.

I just hope the conversation with the police scares the little bastard half as much as the grotesque phone call frightened me.

All of this has really brought some very unwelcome issues back into my life which I'd thought were resolved: I guess not.

Meanwhile, I want you all to know that I felt so strengthened by your concern! Usually, I am not feeling "triggered" when I post here, although certainly I have had times when I have been confused & unhappy - but I haven't experienced first-hand the feelings of terror & outrage that so many of Our Guys must go through when they disclose their innermost thoughts here. So what I just experienced may be the closest I can come to feeling the Love that Our Guys can immerse themselves here at MS.

THANKS FOR EVERYTHING!!!

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#123739 - 03/14/05 03:28 AM Re: Should I report obscene phone call from kid?
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