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#122659 - 12/15/04 04:59 AM Re: Where is Marc?
vt93 Offline
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Registered: 12/11/04
Posts: 15
Loc: Canada
I also have not been in contact. I don't know why he ig ignoring me.

I hope he is well.


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#122660 - 12/15/04 07:52 AM Re: Where is Marc?
lostcowboy Offline
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Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 797
Loc: North Texas
Hi, I believe Marc left the board about a week ago. I did not learn enough to say what the fight, if it was a fight was about. I also miss having him around. I hope he is doing fine, and will return when he can.

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#122662 - 12/19/04 12:46 AM Re: Where is Marc?
ak Offline
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Registered: 01/10/04
Posts: 1491
Quote:
Originally posted by rcs:
Hello,

I am Ricky. You people do not know me, but I am in Marc's cancer group. I came by to check on him and found him with open food containers that were not touched. And I had to clean him up. He was sick and couln't get out of bed.

I will stay here with him for now. Monday, I am calling his doctors. He shouldn't be alone right now.

I registered here because I saw the site on his computer. I am also a survivor of sexual abuse.

I will be back when I get home. But for now, I need to help him.

Ricky
Unless you were told by him to post this, I think it very wrong you did.

andrei


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#122664 - 12/19/04 03:24 AM Re: Where is Marc?
lostcowboy Offline
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Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 797
Loc: North Texas
Hi RCS, thank you for being there for him, and thank you for letting us know. Feel free to come back for yourself.

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#122666 - 12/19/04 05:09 PM Re: Where is Marc?
TeeJayUU Offline
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Registered: 04/30/04
Posts: 262
Loc: MidWest
Ricky,

What I think a few friends are trying to say here is that Marc is a very private person in many ways and there is often information he would not rather share here.

HOWEVER, you probably did not know that, so DO NOT FEEL BAD! You did the right thing in your heart and we appreciate your care and concern. You are obviously a good hearted and caring person.

On behalf of all of us, thank you for being there for him and taking care of him. Tell Marc that he is in our thoughts and that we hope he gets better soon.

As for you, welcome to MS, this is a good place, filled with healing and friends and support while sharing our pains and past. Come on back now, Ya Hear!

PEACE!

TJ

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#122667 - 12/19/04 09:31 PM Re: Where is Marc?
Kenn Offline
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Registered: 07/10/04
Posts: 146
Loc: Toronto, Canada


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#122668 - 12/19/04 10:20 PM Re: Where is Marc?
Leosha Offline
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Registered: 06/18/03
Posts: 3614
Loc: Right here
I am going to be an asshole here, simply because it seems there is an assumption that many people here are idiots. This is from the initial post, which Andrei had quoted in his response.

--I am Ricky. You people do not know me, but I am in Marc's cancer group. I came by to check on him and found him with open food containers that were not touched. And I had to clean him up. He was sick and couln't get out of bed.--

Interesting. I was under the impression that Marc had joined a cancer support group just a week or two ago. How did you get in to the apartment, if he was unable to get out of bed? At your first support group meeting, must you trade a copy of your house key to someone else, 'just in case'? Or does this man leave his door unlocked, living in Southern California?

--I will stay here with him for now. Monday, I am calling his doctors. He shouldn't be alone right now.--

Why must you wait until Monday? Don't 'doctors' generally have a person on-call, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week? And if someone suffering from such illness is incapable even of getting out of bed, shouldn't the hospital be something appropriate?

--I registered here because I saw the site on his computer. I am also a survivor of sexual abuse.--

I am sorry, I find this 'convenient'. You go to this person's home to help because of illness. You find this site on his computer, and just decide to join so you can tell everyone here what condition he is in? Remind me to snoop on my girlfriend's computer the next time I am at her house, and join Amazon.com or whatever site she happens to have up on the page at the time.

I am sure there are others here with doubts of this story and situation. And I was going to say nothing. But I resent it being assumed that people here, myself included, are fools.

Leosha

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#122669 - 12/19/04 10:40 PM Re: Where is Marc?
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Registered: 07/05/04
Posts: 499
Leosha, you are being a very bad boy! Thank you.


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#122670 - 12/19/04 10:45 PM Re: Where is Marc?
Kenn Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/10/04
Posts: 146
Loc: Toronto, Canada
I am forever falling off the proverbial turnip truck so I don't know what to believe about this but thanks, Leosha, for your illuminating skepticism.

Kenn

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#122671 - 12/20/04 04:21 PM Re: Where is Marc?
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Registered: 09/24/03
Posts: 2154
Loc: Massachusetts
Ricky,

I hope to God you and I never cross paths on this site.

You cost me the friendship of a man who's very dear to me because you couldn't keep your Goddamn mouth shut about stuff Marc didn't want known.

Whatever your intentions, you were wrong. You betrayed a trust. You are no better than my perp, and that's something I don't say lightly. If you're indeed a survivor, you should've known better.

Enough. No more. I can't care about anyone anymore because I always end up alone.

Scot \:\(

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#122672 - 12/20/04 08:26 PM Re: Where is Marc?
Ivo Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 05/08/04
Posts: 267
Loc: Germany
Guys,
I think that we all need to calm down and think a little bit about everything.

Please try to not put hard words and do not fight; you are just making bigger confusion and uncertainty among other members.

There must be way to find compromise and solution for this situation without too many emotions.

I would like to know does anyone from this site still communicate directly with Marc?
I mean any of you that are a little bit longer part of this site?

Ivo


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#122673 - 12/21/04 02:11 AM Re: Where is Marc?
TeeJayUU Offline
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Registered: 04/30/04
Posts: 262
Loc: MidWest
Guys,

Marc and I used to talk often, here, phone, our own emails. I have not talked with him in a few weeks now.

I have to say, I am confused with some of these postings and postings in other sites here.

It may not be appropriate, but would the moderators consider a general posting to us all so this can be settled and we all can get back to trusting and healing. Not just misc. ostings from all of us about what we think or don't think or might think or or or....

I know Dave has asked for calm in the wake of several recent issues. I appreciate what he has said, and I am certainly NOT trying to fan any flames. I am just a bit confused.

PEACE - Please!

TJ

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#122674 - 12/21/04 02:34 AM Re: Where is Marc?
TeeJayUU Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 04/30/04
Posts: 262
Loc: MidWest
Guys,

Marc and I used to talk often, here, phone, our own emails. I have not talked with him in a few weeks now.

My Brothers,

There seems to be a lot of confusion, questions, some finger pointing, anger, et cetera, around here of late. There are some uncomfortable postings and situations going on at MaleSurvivor.

However, the overwhelming number of us are here to simply heal, trust, share, and so on. The MS Mods and Board do an OUTSTANDING job of providing a safe environment, a warm and welcoming place to come and heal. I want to thank them for ALL they do for each of us!

I know they are in a difficult situation right now, and for that, I am VERY sorry. I hope and Pray that all of these issues can be worked out in the best possible interest of each person involved.

As much as I would REALLY like to know what is going on here, it really is not my business. What I have read has left me a bit dazed and confused, but again, THANK YOU MS for all you have done for so very many of us!

To all of us Brothers on this most difficult road to healing I Pray for PEACE, FAITH, HOPE, and LOVE!

TJ

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